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071. 7 Steps to Financial Literacy: Raising Money-Smart Kids

071. 7 Steps to Financial Literacy

Raising Money-Smart Kids

Teaching financial literacy gives children a strong foundation for their future, helping them sidestep common financial missteps and paving the way to long-term security and independence. In this episode, we’re talking about practical strategies for instilling the value of money, the importance of saving, and the basics of budgeting—all through engaging, hands-on activities that make learning fun. Tune in!

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Are you just starting your homeschooling journey? We’re here to help! Begin with our Get Started in Homeschooling page and Homeschooling FAQ to make the transition smoother. If you’re guiding a young child, explore our How to Homeschool Kindergarten. to make those first steps special. For middle schoolers, don’t miss our Middle School page packed with tips and advice. And if you’re heading into the high school years, our Essential Steps to Homeschool High School will guide you every step of the way!

Show Notes

As homeschoolers, we strive to provide our children with a well-rounded education that goes beyond core subjects. We want our kids to thrive in every aspect of life, including essential life skills like financial well-being. For our children, who are just beginning to form their own financial habits and identities, learning about money early on is crucial. By teaching financial literacy, we’re giving them a head start in life, helping them avoid common pitfalls, and setting them up for a future of financial security and independence. Today, we’re exploring practical steps to teach your children the value of money, the importance of saving, and the basics of budgeting in a way that engages them in a hands-on, fun way.

Think about it—money plays a significant role in our lives, from the everyday decisions we make to the long-term goals we set. Financial literacy is not just about understanding dollars and cents; it’s about equipping our children with the tools they need as they grow into adulthood. We want to lay the foundation for financial responsibility that will benefit them for a lifetime. The first thing you want to do is:

1. Start Early (4:30)

Starting financial education early is key. Even preschoolers can begin to understand the concept of money if we introduce it in a playful and relatable way. Nothing beats real-world experience. We suggest starting by giving your child a small allowance, perhaps tied to simple chores like making their bed or helping set the table. We know that this can be controversial. There are two main sides to this debate: allowance vs. commission. With allowance, kids are paid a set weekly or monthly rate, independent of chores or other responsibilities. The second is a commission or work-for-pay system where they are paid for doing chores or making other contributions to the family like pet care and watching younger siblings. Whichever you choose is up to you.

Act Your Wage is a game that helps children learn essential financial skills like budgeting, saving, and making smart spending choices—all while having a blast. It’s an awesome tool to bring real-world money lessons into your homeschool or family time.

 I have certain expectations that are expected and then my kids can earn money by doing ‘extra’ chores. I feel like this helps them see the connection between work and earning money. And we have certain things that you are expected to do as a contributing member of the family, but sometimes kids want more- maybe they are saving for a favorite toy or game. Maybe you need some additional help around the house!

Activity Idea:
  • Allowance and Chores: Begin with a small weekly allowance. Create a chore chart that lists simple tasks your child can do to earn their allowance. For example, they could earn $1 for helping with dinner or setting the table each night or $2 for helping with laundry. This introduces the concept of earning money through effort and responsibility, and it also helps them learn about time management and the value of work.
  • Play Store: Set up a “store” at home where they can use their earned money to “buy” things like toys or special snacks. Having a play store allows your kids to make decisions about spending, saving, and understanding the concept of value in a fun way. For more ideas, you can explore engaging financial literacy games on the U.S. Mint’s website, which offers interactive activities to make learning about money fun and the Federal Reserve Comic Books.

2. Saving (7:37)

At some point, your kids will want something that exceeds their immediate budget—this is a perfect opportunity to teach them about saving. Encourage them to set aside a portion of their allowance or gift money regularly. This will introduce them to the concept of delayed gratification and helps them understand the importance of setting financial goals.

Activity Idea:
  • Savings Jars: Create three jars labeled “Save,” “Spend,” and “Share.” Each time your child receives money, have them divide it among the jars. For instance, they could put 50% in the “Save” jar, 40% in the “Spend” jar, and 10% in the “Share” jar for charity or gifts. This is a great visual approach that helps them understand different money management strategies, whether it be saving for future needs, budgeting a specific item, and giving to others.
Smart Piggy- 3-in-1 Money-Wise Educational Piggy Bank: One bank with three parts for spending, saving and sharing to teach your child about budgeting, setting savings goals and helping others. Comes with a simple to follow “Kid’s Guide” that introduces your child to basic money concepts.
  • Savings Challenge: Try a fun savings challenge with your child using our free savings chart! Have them choose something they really want, like a toy or comic book. Every week, sit down together, count their savings, and mark their progress on the chart. Celebrate with them when they hit their goal! This is a great way to teach patience and the joy of working towards something special. We will link our free savings chart on our website so be sure to download it and help turn saving into a rewarding habit.
100 Day Savings Challenge Binder with Cash Envelopes, Glitter Envelopes Saving Challenge Book!

3. Budgeting (10:12)

Budgeting is a crucial skill that can be taught in a fun way. We suggest turning budgeting into a family project. For example, involve your kids in planning the budget for a family outing or grocery shopping. Show them how to list expenses, prioritize needs, and stick to a budget. This hands-on experience makes budgeting real and relevant to them.

Activity Idea:
  • Grocery Budgeting: Give your child a small budget for a specific part of the grocery list, like snacks. Take them shopping with you and let them choose items that fit within their budget. This is a great place to start with young kids. It teaches them about price comparison and the importance of sticking to a budget. This can even count as your math for the day.
  • Family Outing Planning: Plan a simple family outing, like a picnic in the park. Give your kids a budget to work with, and have them help choose the food, drinks, and activities while staying within the budget. This helps them understand the importance of planning and making choices that align with financial constraints. It also fosters critical thinking and decision-making. 

4. Discussions About Money (12:00)

It’s so important to talk openly about money with your kids. In our society, discussing financial matters can sometimes be considered taboo, but for our children to be financially literate, these conversations must be part of the dialogue. These discussions should be ongoing and cover everything from how to save and spend wisely to setting financial goals. By discussing both financial successes and some of our challenges, we normalize the ups and downs of managing money. This can make these topics less intimidating and more approachable for our kids. We suggest starting these discussions early and making them a regular part of your family’s routine. Encourage your children to ask questions, and don’t shy away from difficult topics like debt or credit. The more they understand now, the better prepared they’ll be to handle their finances responsibly in the future.

Activity Idea:
  • Family Financial Meetings: Hold regular family meetings to discuss financial topics. For example, you could review the family’s monthly budget together and talk about upcoming expenses. You could even talk about saving for some long-term goals like a big family vacation. This will foster open communication and help demystify financial concepts. Ultimately, you want to teach your kids to be comfortable talking about money matters.
  • You Need a Budget: The Proven System for Breaking the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Cycle, Getting Out of Debt, and Living the Life You Want. It provides tons of examples on how to budget for everyone. Explained very well every category along with how to set it up.
  • Real-Life Scenarios: When faced with a financial decision, involve your child in the process. For example, if you’re deciding whether to buy a new appliance or repair an old one, explain the costs and benefits of each option. Ask for their input, and use it as an opportunity to teach about making wise financial choices. This helps children understand the impact of financial decisions in real-life situations.
Dave Ramsey’s Junior’s Adventures: Storytime Book Set is a great series that uses stories to teach kids about money and promote early financial literacy to build strong money habits early.

5. Hands-On Financial Experience (16:10)

Again, nothing beats real-world experience to gain financial experience. Providing opportunities for them will allow your kids to practice and gain experience with real money. 

Activity Idea:
  1. Bank Account: Open a savings account for your child and encourage them to deposit a portion of their allowance or gift money regularly. Show them how to track their balance and understand interest. This activity helps them learn about banking, the benefits of saving, and the basics of managing money in a formal setting. We found a local credit union that worked great for my kids. They even had savings incentives and if they saved a certain percentage, they earned points and they could buy things from their website ‘store’ with their points. Watching their savings grow and learning to manage a bank account really helped them develop a sense of financial responsibility and independence.
  2. Gift Shopping: it’s a great idea to have your kids buy gifts for family members with their own money. Take them to a store with their set budget and guide to stay within their limit. This activity is two fold- it teaches them to think about others and manage their budget,

6. Teach Through Play (19:00)

Kids learn best when they’re having fun, so we suggest incorporating financial lessons into their playtime. Set up a play store or restaurant, complete with play money and a cash register. This not only teaches them about money but also reinforces math and social skills.

Activity Idea:
  • Play Store: Create a pretend “store” at home with items from around the house. Give your child real money and let them “shop” for items. I know a lot of people like to use play money, but I believe there’s huge value in getting kids to handle real money. Encourage them to make decisions based on their budget. We loved doing this when my kids were little. We had this super cool cash register that used real money so they could ‘check out’. This is such a fun way to introduce basic financial concepts like transactions and budgeting. 
  • Lemonade Stand: Help your child set up a lemonade stand or another small business. Guide them through the process of pricing, selling, and counting profits. This hands-on experience teaches them the basics of entrepreneurship, money management, and customer interaction, all while fostering creativity and problem-solving skills. I would buy all the supplies and the kids earned a ton of money, but I always made them pay me back for the supplies. It’s all part of learning how finances work. 
Pretend & Play Calculator Cash Register – We LOVED this cash register and bonus, it helps develop early math skills. Comes with play money but you can use REAL Money!
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7. Teens and Young Adults (23:23)

As your kids grow into their teenage years, their financial education should evolve right along with them. This is an exciting time to introduce them to more advanced financial concepts like earning their own money, budgeting for personal expenses, and even investing for the future.

Activity Idea:

  • Part Time Job: Getting a job can be such a rewarding experience for teens—not just because they’re earning their own money, but because they’re learning the value of hard work and responsibility. Whether they’re babysitting, mowing lawns, or working at a local coffee shop, it’s important to encourage them to set some financial goals for their earnings. Maybe they want to save up for something special like a car or start a savings fund for college. Sit down together and help them create a budget that makes sense for their goals and help them find balance between saving and spending. Homeschoolers are famous for becoming entrepreneurs and I created a Free Entrepreneur Business Pack – I’ll link it in the show notes. As a business owner myself, I really wanted to make something available for our kids. It’s filled with tools and templates to help them start and manage their own small business—whether that’s a lemonade stand, a lawn care service, or selling crocheted stuffed animals on Etsy. This is such a confidence-builder and teaches them so many skills like customer service and the basics of running a business. It’s a great way to show them that with a bit of effort and creativity, they can achieve something really cool. Plus, it looks great on a resume!  
Get your FREE Teen Business Start-up Packet. The next big idea can come from anyone, including teenagers – and homeschooling allows for more time and for business success! We discuss this and share valuable insights in Episode .049 Internships, First Job, Money, Entrepreneurship.This is the 9th episode in our High School Series.
  • Meal Planning: We talked about the importance of budgeting at the grocery store but you can take it even further with teenagers. Empower them by giving them a weekly budget and guiding them in creating a grocery list based on planned meals. Take them shopping and compare products to ensure they stay within the budget. This activity teaches them how to manage money and also fosters decision-making skills and teaches organization skills. Get your FREE Meal Planners 
  • Investing Together: If your child has saved some money, consider introducing them to investing. You can open a custodial brokerage account and guide them as they choose a few stocks. You can have regular “investment meetings” to review how their stocks are doing and talk about different investment strategies. Maybe you want to pick some of your own stocks too to report at your meetings. This can help them understand the basics of investing and the importance of long-term financial planning. It’s also a great way to bond. 

Keep the Conversation Going

Remember, teaching financial literacy is not a one-time lesson—it’s an ongoing conversation. Be there to guide your kids, offer advice, and model good financial behavior. Your goal is to equip your children with the tools they need to navigate their financial futures confidently.We hope these steps inspire you to start teaching your children about money in a way that’s engaging and practical. By instilling these values early, you’re setting them up for a lifetime of financial success and independence. We’re excited to hear how you’re introducing financial literacy to your kids—let’s raise a generation of financially savvy, responsible, and independent young adults!

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070. Redefining Normal: Embracing Homeschooling

Redefining Normal: Embracing Homeschooling

The transition to homeschooling can stir up a whirlwind of emotions for many families. Many of us have a vision of what childhood should look like, and choosing to homeschool can make the future seem uncertain or vastly different from what we had imagined. It’s okay to grieve when your expectations don’t align with your new path. In today’s episode, we’re sharing valuable tips on how to navigate this transition, redefine your family’s new “normal,” and fully embrace the rewarding journey of homeschooling.

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Are you just starting your homeschooling journey? We’re here to help! Begin with our Get Started in Homeschooling page and Homeschooling FAQ to make the transition smoother. If you’re guiding a young child, explore our How to Homeschool Kindergarten. to make those first steps special. For middle schoolers, don’t miss our Middle School page packed with tips and advice. And if you’re heading into the high school years, our Essential Steps to Homeschool High School will guide you every step of the way!

Show Notes

Even though we’ve always homeschooled our kids, we understand that the transition to homeschooling can bring about complex emotions for a lot of families. We often hear from parents who find themselves mourning the loss of what they believed to be “normal” and struggling with the new reality. It’s natural to feel this way when faced with significant changes, whether it’s homeschooling or another major shift. 

Some people have a specific picture of childhood in their minds, and the path ahead might look completely different now that you’ve chosen homeschooling. It’s perfectly normal to grieve when expectations clash with reality. Today, we’re providing some helpful tips on how to transition smoothly, redefine your family’s new “normal,” and embrace the rewarding journey ahead.

Navigating the Emotional Terrain

The shift to homeschooling can feel like stepping into uncharted territory, especially if it wasn’t the original plan. Some people feel a profound sense of loss, and that might not just be your routine, but also the future you had imagined. This mourning of “normal” can feel similar to grief over any significant life change—be it a career shift, a move, or even a personal loss. It’s about letting go of an expected path and embracing this new one that was not initially on your radar.

In Episode 041, “Finding Confidence as a Homeschooler,” we talked about overcoming fears and worries that all of us face on this journey. We also talked about when the right time is to start homeschooling, how you can teach subjects you’re not familiar with, and what you can do to build your confidence as a homeschool mom. That was more the practical side of building your confidence, but today, we wanted to talk about working through the apprehension you may be feeling about this new homeschooling lifestyle.

Embracing the New Journey

One of the first steps in overcoming this (or any) emotional hurdle is to recognize and honor your feelings. It’s important to acknowledge that mourning “normal” doesn’t mean you are ungrateful or regretful. After all, you’ve chosen to homeschool because you know it’s the right decision for your family. It simply means you’re adjusting to a significant life change. We would encourage you to give yourself permission to feel these emotions—it’s a crucial part of the healing process. 

Anybody who has ever chosen to homeschool has probably battled with this feeling in one way or another. It’s important to keep in mind that this transition is going to be a lot easier when you find a community of like-minded people who understand what you’re going through. In our Episode 007, “Finding Your People”, we emphasize the importance of connecting with other homeschoolers and walking through exactly how you can do that. Sometimes we feel like we’re on a solo mission here and connecting with other people who are also going through it can offer invaluable support and reassurance and it can make the transition a lot smoother and more enjoyable- not just for you, also your kids! There’s a chance that they may be having some of these feelings too.

Redefining “Normal”

As you navigate this new path, it’s essential to redefine what “normal” means for your family. The traditional markers of childhood—school events, sports teams, dances, and hangouts—might be a little different as a homeschooling family, but I assure you, homeschoolers are also enriching their lives with all these things too. However, they may take on new forms- that you actually just might love even MORE than the picture in your head. We’re going to get to all of that later in this episode.

Yeah, we got some great things to share. Also, I wanted to mention our episode about “Dealing with Naysayers,” —we talked about how to manage negative opinions and criticism about your homeschooling choice. It’s a reminder that your family’s “normal” may look different from the outside or within your current circle of friends. You don’t have to give up these friends, but there is an entire world of new friends waiting for you…and your kids! It may seem scary at first, but meeting new people and getting plugged into your homeschool community is probably a lot easier than you think.

And spend less time with unsupportive people!  Spend more time with others that lift you up. 

Myth of Socialization

Some of your worry and apprehension might be due to the fact that you think your children will be missing out on friendships. One of the most persistent myths about homeschooling is that these kids are isolated and lack social experiences. In reality, this misconception couldn’t be further from the truth.

The myth of socialization often stems from a lack of understanding of what homeschoolers actually do. Homeschoolers aren’t confined to their desks for eight hours a day. When you are one on one, lessons take a fraction of the time as traditional school which allows for hours and hours everyday for more activities and MORE opportunities to hang out with their friends.

 Even earning their associates degrees in high school, our kids never spent more than 4 hours a day on school – and in elementary maybe an hour a day.

A common mistake new homeschoolers make is trying to do too much. Remember that your homeschool day does not have to look like a traditional school day. You are not balancing 30 other students and classroom transitions. Super small teacher/student ratios enable us to get things done a lot quicker, and give your students ample free time to pursue their interests. 

You should definitely check out our Socialization Episode (047) for more information about debunking this myth, but we wanted to list out some of the ways here that homeschooling offers so many opportunities:

  • Community Engagement: Homeschoolers are out interacting with their communities through volunteer work, local events, and service projects. This exposure helps them build relationships with people of all ages, backgrounds, and cultures.
  • Field Trips and Outings: Trips to libraries, museums, parks, and historical sites can offer opportunities to engage with tons of people and learn from real-life experiences. If you’re kind of stuck and not sure where you should go or what you should do, download our field trip bundle – it has 100 Field Trip Ideas. Oftentimes, we visit places that compliment what we are currently studying. Or sometimes we’re just doing the homeschool activities around town – ice-skating rinks, gymnastics, so many places have homeschool days for a fraction of the price while other kids are in school.
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100 Field Trip Ideas: Adding field trips to your homeschool will make learning come alive for your children and create lifelong memories. Download your FREE Field Trip Bundle.
  • Extracurricular Activities: Sports teams, art classes, music lessons, and clubs provide additional avenues for socialization. These kids participate in group activities where they can meet friends with similar interests.  I also hosted 2 geography clubs and a writing/poetry club. We’ve done book clubs and our board game club. You can download our free extracurricular workbook to get some ideas.
Free Extracurricular & Volunteer Workbook: Download your FREE High School Extracurricular & Volunteering Workbook with 205 Activities! Adding these activities to your teen’s high school isn’t only fun, it helps create diverse and interesting students and makes them stand out on transcripts and job interviews. But what should they do? We created this workbook that will make choosing these activities fun! We discuss this and share valuable insights in Episode .040 Extracurricular & Volunteering.This is the 7th episode in our High School Series.
  • Homeschool Co-ops and Groups: Many homeschooling families join co-ops and support groups that organize educational activities, field trips, and different social events like dances or just coffee shop hangouts. We were in a great co-op for years- we even co-taught several classes together through the years. We had a great time with our Adventure Kids Club – we did so many activities and formed life-long friendships along the way.
  • Family and Friends: these kids get to spend quality time with extended family and friends. This close-knit social circle fosters strong, meaningful relationships. I love that we can just go take a few days and hang out with the grandparents. They live an hour away and each of my kids have such a great relationship with them. 

Another really cool thing is that homeschoolers are not limited by age-segregated groups like in public school. These kids learn to interact with all kinds of people. Far from being isolated, homeschooling provides MORE opportunities for meaningful socialization than a traditional classroom setting.

Advantages of Homeschooling

When you’re feeling like your child might be missing out or you’re mourning the loss of that sense of “normal,” it’s helpful to focus on the positive aspects of homeschooling. There are so many advantages that can far outweigh traditional schooling:

  • Personalized Learning: possibly one of the reasons you’ve chosen to homeschool your kids is that the education system failed them. One of the greatest advantages of homeschooling is the ability to tailor education to your child’s interests and learning style. Lessons can be customized to match your child’s strengths and areas for improvement, ensuring a more effective and engaging learning experience.
  • Flexibility and Freedom: You can set your own schedule. If you have a night owl, you can do school in the afternoon or evening. There’s no rule that school has to happen between 8am and 4 PM. You can plan vacations and travel into your curriculum, and adjust learning plans as needed. Our Episode 052, Education Vacation laid out ways to make your vacation part of your school with a FREE Vacation Planner. And travel when it’s cheapest – when everybody else is in school. You know I love staying on budget!
  • Strong Family Relationships: we talked about this earlier with the grandparents, spending more time together allows for deeper connections and shared experiences. You can do unit studies as a family and learn together. 
  • Fostering a Love of Learning: Without the constraints of a traditional school schedule, homeschooling allows children to explore subjects they are passionate about. My kids have so much free time. My daughter had a job in high school and was able to save up to buy her own car. She also has rebuilt several cars and computers and my son is passionate about classical guitar. He performs his music- he teaches lessons and sets up his own gigs. This freedom encourages a lifelong love of learning and self-motivation. And mine were/are competitive athletes.  Shorter school days meant more studio time.  I don’t think we would have been able to dedicate that time with a normal school schedule.
The Well-Adjusted Child is a must-read for all parents who are AT ALL dissatisfied with the schooling their child is being (poorly) served by the state in its mass-public-education efforts.
  • Direct Involvement in Learning: As a homeschool parent, you have a more direct role in your child’s daily education. This involvement allows you to guide their learning, provide immediate feedback, and ensure that their education aligns with your family’s goals and values.
  • Real-Life Skill Building: Homeschooling provides opportunities for real-life skill building that might be overlooked in a traditional classroom. Children can learn practical skills through hands-on projects, family responsibilities, and community involvement.
  • Customized Pace: Homeschooling allows children to progress at their own pace. They can move quickly through subjects they understand and spend more time on challenging topics, resulting in a more personalized and effective learning experience.
  • No Homework: Since all learning occurs during the day, there is no need for additional homework. This approach reduces stress and allows children to focus on learning and enjoying their free time.
  • Improved Performance: Research indicates that homeschooled students often perform better on standardized tests and show greater pride in their achievements. This self-motivation and personalized attention contribute to their academic success.
  • Reduced Negative Pressures: Homeschooling minimizes exposure to negative social pressures such as bullying and peer ridicule. This supportive environment helps maintain your child’s self-esteem and encourages a positive attitude toward learning.
  • Broader Exposure: these kids are not stuck in a classroom all day and have more exposure and time for experiences. This interaction helps them develop strong communication skills and gain insights from diverse perspectives.

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Deschooling

Deschooling is an essential phase in transitioning to homeschooling. This time is really important when you’re worried about this new lifestyle. It involves taking a break from formal education methods and allowing both parents and children to adjust to a more relaxed and organic approach to learning. During this time, you can focus on fostering curiosity, creativity, and a love of learning without the constraints of traditional schooling.

For more information on deschooling and how to make the most of this transition, please visit Deschooling 101. It offers insights and practical tips for navigating this important phase in your homeschooling journey.

Finding Joy in the New Normal

As you adjust to homeschooling, remember that the journey is unique to each family. Embrace the changes and find joy in the new experiences and opportunities that homeschooling brings. The sense of loss over “normal” will gradually fade as you build new traditions and create a fulfilling educational experience. Mourning what could have been is a natural part of the process, but it doesn’t define your homeschooling journey. Celebrate the progress you make, cherish the moments of connection with your children, and find comfort in the knowledge that you are providing a meaningful and personalized education.

Remember too, not to project your personal feelings on your student.  A lot of times that “normal” we are mourning is an extension of our school and life experience and that is not necessarily the same thing that our kids experience.  We are all unique individuals.  Something important to us, might not be to our child and vice versa.  

Homeschool Prom video (9min):

In conclusion, transitioning to homeschooling can be both challenging and rewarding. By acknowledging and working through your feelings of loss, connecting with supportive communities, and actively seeking socialization and deschooling opportunities, you can embrace the gift of homeschooling and create a new “normal” that enriches your family’s life. Embrace this new chapter with an open heart, and know that you are not alone in this journey. Your path may be different from what you had originally envisioned, but it is filled with its own unique rewards and opportunities.  

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069. Why Choose a Literature-Based Homeschool?

Why Choose a Literature-Based Homeschool?

Are you looking for a way to make learning more memorable and impactful for your kids? Are you tired of adding more screens to your home or feeling drained by boring textbooks? A literature-based homeschool might be just what you need. This approach not only prepares your child for academic success but also fosters a lifelong love of reading and learning. It enhances their communication skills and can turn their education into an engaging, interconnected experience.

Today, we’re sharing how using a literature-based approach has set our kids up for success in our homeschools and how it can make a real difference in your family’s educational experience too!

Episode 069:

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Are you just starting your homeschooling journey? We’re here to help! Begin with our Get Started in Homeschooling page and Homeschooling FAQ to make the transition smoother. If you’re guiding a young child, explore our How to Homeschool Kindergarten. to make those first steps special. For middle schoolers, don’t miss our Middle School page packed with tips and advice. And if you’re heading into the high school years, our Essential Steps to Homeschool High School will guide you every step of the way!

Show Notes

Choosing the right Homeschooling Method can make all the difference in your family. Using a literature-based approach in both our homeschools has set our kids up for success. How do your kids learn best? Schools often rely on boring textbooks, but homeschooling opens up a world of alternative approaches-there are so many different methods out there. Nutella school year labels

What is a Literature-based Approach?

You know we are all about igniting a love of learning and a literature-based approach can be a powerful way to do that! This method uses “living” books. A living book is one that was written by a person who has a deep passion for the subject they are writing about. It’s a book that draws you into the story and captivates your imagination. They make you care about the subject or characters and get you to think.

The beauty about this approach is its flexibility; you can easily create your own literature-based units using our FREE Unit Planner or choose from tons of ready-made curricula with pre-selected sources that offer a rich blend of literature.

Why Choose a Literature-based Approach?

The power of a literature-based education goes beyond just learning facts—it nurtures a love for reading and, in turn, develops strong writing skills. When children are exposed to well-written stories, they naturally absorb the rhythms and structures of good writing. This immersion in quality literature helps them develop a rich vocabulary, an understanding of narrative flow, and the ability to express their thoughts clearly and creatively. 

Our own experience with this method has been invaluable. Our young adults have all earned their associate degrees while still in high school, and our teenagers are on the same path. They have not only thrived academically but have also each developed a deep love for reading and writing. They were well-prepared for college, and we are confident that this approach can bring similar success to you.

We’ve heard from a lot of new homeschoolers who, after withdrawing their children from school, expressed concerns about how their previous school forced them to read dry and inaccessible textbooks. This kind of experience can spoil a child’s love for reading or even turn them off from it entirely. But you can change this and help your child rediscover a love for literature starting today!

If you’re struggling after withdrawing your child, it is essential that you begin the process of Deschooling. Deschooling is an important step after withdrawing your child as it helps them regain their natural curiosity and love for learning. In Episode 34, Deschooling 101, we give practical strategies and ways to set you up for success. Do this before starting any program. 

But think about it: stories have been cherished across cultures and throughout history. For centuries, myths, legends, and historical accounts have been passed down through storytelling. Stories have a profound impact on our lives—they’re woven into the very fabric of who we are. 

How often do your kids ask to hear “just one more chapter” from a textbook? Probably never. But when children read or hear a good story, they become emotionally invested and want to keep going! Stories provide them with insights into life in other times and places while subtly teaching them about character and values.

We can’t talk about a literature based curriculum without talking a bit about Charlotte Mason:

The Influence of Charlotte Mason

 Charlotte Mason was a pioneering educator in the late 19th century who profoundly influenced the literature-based approach to homeschooling. She believed that education should be an engaging and enriching experience. She encouraged teachers to introduce great minds to her students—authors, artists, and composers— and then just get out of the way.

A Philosophy of Education is the most beautiful and simple, clean printed version of Charlotte’s original Texts.

 So it makes sense that the methods she used for literature were simply reading and narrating. Mason championed the use of “living books” written by a single author passionate about their subject. Her philosophies continue to inspire homeschoolers all over the world, emphasizing the importance of fostering a lifelong love of learning through well-written literature. You’ll find a lot of Charlotte Mason inspired curriculum choices out there, both religious and secular. Build Your Library  
Wildwood Curriculum
Blossom and Root
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Simply Charlotte Mason

Strengthening Family Bonds Through Shared Reading

One of the greatest joys of a literature-rich homeschool is the way it brings your entire family together. Imagine you and your kids cuddled up on the sofa sharing stories about history, science, and classic literature.  Reading aloud as a family not only enhances learning but also builds strong bonds. It also ignites some fantastic and sometimes intense discussions. You may laugh or possibly shed tears together over a powerful story. These are some of our favorite memories together.

Read Aloud Handbook really spurred our desire to prioritize read-aloud time in our homes! Lots of great info! Our children have benefited from reading this book & putting the suggestions into action … and all the memories we created during our family read-aloud time!

Reading The Chronicles of Narnia was one of these special times for me and my kids. This is a great series set during World War II and follows Peter, Susan, Edmund, and Lucy as they discover the land of Narnia through a wardrobe. It’s a great series and it sparked discussions about bravery, loyalty, and sacrifice. During these discussions, each of my children always had something to contribute.And we still read aloud in my house- this isn’t just something to do with young kids!

Read-Aloud Family breaks down not only the what but the why of reading aloud with our families. It is packed with strategies and truth for making reading aloud a part of your family tradition and daily activities.

Bringing Facts to Life with Stories

Let’s be honest—dry facts are hard to remember. But when you wrap those facts in a captivating story, they suddenly stick. Stories give context to information, making it more meaningful and memorable to them. For example, learning about the Revolutionary War through the eyes of a young soldier in a historical novel like Johnny Tremain makes the events come alive and provides a deeper understanding than just memorizing a list of dates or battles ever could. Incorporate a Timeline and have your kids artistically draw events for that timeline and you have the beginning of a unit study. 

I remember reading Number the Stars which brought the terrible events of World War II to life for my kids in a way no textbook could. It’s set in Nazi-occupied Denmark and the story follows a young girl, Annemarie as she helps her Jewish friend Ellen escape to safety. It’s such a powerful book. Your kids will truly feel the fear, courage, and hope of the characters. This book sparked some meaningful conversations about history, and human nature. But I assure you, the emotional connection to the story cemented the historical facts in my kids minds. A lot of the history I learned in homeschool, I wasn’t taught in public school- and like a lot of homeschoolers, I was learning right alongside my kids. 

We all love a good story. Whether we’re laughing at a funny tale or listening to a grandparent share memories at a family reunion. Stories connect us. From a young age, we are drawn to storytelling; it’s in our nature. Narratives connect us to others and offer a powerful way to teach your children. This can truly make learning more integrated and meaningful. For subjects like math that require skill-level lessons, you can set aside time for each child to work at their own level.

Many subjects, however, can be learned together. The depth and complexity of the work may vary depending on the child’s age, but the subject matter can remain the same. Unlike the traditional school model, where subjects are taught separately—language arts, math, science, history—a literature-based approach reflects the interconnectedness of knowledge. Students can read and write about what they are learning in history, science, or geography, making the learning experience more cohesive and efficient. 

Engaging Hearts and Minds with Literature

Like we said earlier, literature-based homeschooling can really make learning an adventure rather than a chore. It really does engage your heart and mind! Reading Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery was a game-changer for us. Set in the late 19th century, it follows the adventures of Anne Shirley, an imaginative and talkative orphan, as she finds a home in a small community on Prince Edward Island. Our kids connected with Anne’s adventures, her dreams, and her challenges. They learned about kindness, perseverance, and imagination in a way that no worksheet could ever teach. Their hearts and minds were fully engaged, and they begged for more every night.

And my kids loved Robin Hood like nothing else.  I swear for an entire year, we lived a Sherwood Forest life.  I think I’ve talked about this in an episode before.  My kids called all their meals “victuals” and I’d yell things like “don’t crown your sister with a cudgel.”  Have we mentioned that homeschoolers often have very broad vocabularies?

Diverse and Inclusive Stories for Broader Perspectives

Incorporating diverse and inclusive stories into your child’s reading can have a profound impact, teaching them about different cultures, perspectives, and experiences. Diverse literature helps your child become a global citizen by fostering empathy and a deep appreciation for the richness of the world’s cultures.

One book that stands out for me is Esperanza Rising by Pam Muñoz Ryan. It tells the story of Esperanza who is a young girl who transitions from a life of privilege in Mexico to the hardships of migrant farming in California during the Great Depression.

 Books like this helped my kids understand resilience and the immigrant experience. When my son hit high school, I had him read one American Dirt by Jeanine Cummins. These are the types of stories they become deeply invested in, nurturing the compassion and social awareness we all hope to instill in our children.

The Watsons Go to Birmingham – 1963 by Christopher Paul Curtis was another eye-opening read for my kids. Set in the 1960s, it follows the Watson family as they journey from Flint, Michigan, to Birmingham, Alabama. It gives you a vivid glimpse into the Civil Rights Movement through the eyes of ten-year-old Kenny Watson. This book started some great discussions about justice and equality. 

Flexible Learning for All Ages

One of the beauties of a literature-based curriculum is its flexibility. You can teach multiple kids at different ages using the same book. For subjects like math, you can set aside individual time for each child, but for history, science, and literature, you can gather everyone together. The discussions that follow a shared reading experience are invaluable and allow each child to contribute at their level.

One of my favorite books I read with my now 17 year old is The Giver by Lois Lowry together. This dystopian novel follows twelve-year-old Jonas as he discovers the dark secrets of his seemingly perfect community. My student was fascinated by the adventure and mystery but it also sparked deeper discussions about ethics and freedom. It also opened up great discussions about the importance of memory and emotions. It was a wonderful way to learn together.

Connected Learning Across Subjects

Traditional education often compartmentalizes subjects, but the real world is interconnected. A literature-based homeschool mimics this natural learning process, weaving subjects together seamlessly. For example, a book about ancient Egypt can lead to explorations in history, geography, art, and even science.

Reading The Golden Goblet by Eloise Jarvis McGraw opened up a world of learning for us. It’s set in ancient Egypt and follows a young boy named Ranofer who dreams of becoming a goldsmith. During the time we read it, we explored ancient Egyptian culture, architecture, and daily life. We also created art projects inspired by Egyptian artifacts, learned about the geography of the Nile, and even tried their hand at writing in hieroglyphs. This is just one of the books we read during that unit study. But this book really stands out because it was such a fantastic story. Doing all these activities and reading rich literature really tied multiple subjects together beautifully. 

Finding Your Love for Reading

Now, you might be thinking, “But I don’t really love to read!” Trust me, you’re not alone. Many parents weren’t taught to appreciate books and stories growing up. I felt the same way at first. But seeing my children’s love for books grow as we read together changed everything. Their excitement and joy were contagious, and before I knew it, I found myself loving literature too. This can be your experience as well!

How to Create a Love for Literature

Are you excited to make literature a meaningful part of your family’s life? It’s easier than you might think! Here are some simple, yet powerful, ways to spark a love for literature and weave it into your homeschool:

Create a Cozy Reading Nook

Designate a special spot in your home where everyone can snuggle up with a good book. Fill it with comfy chairs, soft blankets, and a wide selection of books that cater to each person’s interests. This inviting space signals that reading is a valued and enjoyable activity, making it more likely that your kids will want to spend time with their books.

Set a Reading Routine

Establish a regular reading routine, whether it’s bedtime stories, morning read-alouds to kick off your homeschool day, or afternoon quiet reading time. Consistency helps build a reading habit, creating a sense of anticipation and making reading a treasured part of your day.

Visit the Library Regularly

Make library trips a fun and frequent outing. Let your children explore the shelves and choose books that spark their curiosity. The joy of discovering new books can be incredibly motivating, and many libraries offer story time or reading programs and events. 
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Mix Up the Genres

Introduce your children to a variety of genres—from fantasy and historical fiction to biographies and science books. This keeps reading fresh and exciting while broadening their horizons. Explore our Top 50 books for New Readers and our Favorite Middle School books that are also favorite read-alouds. Be sure to offer a variety as different genres help children develop diverse interests and discover what types of stories resonate with them.

Read Together and Discuss

We love family read-alouds and we encourage you to spend time reading books together and engaging in thoughtful discussions about them. Ask open-ended questions about the characters, plot, and what they think of the story. These kinds of conversations enhance comprehension and also help make reading a shared experience.

Incorporate Audiobooks

Audiobooks are a wonderful way to enjoy literature, especially for reluctant readers. Listen to them during car rides or while doing chores—expressive narration can bring stories to life in a whole new way. Check out our blog post with some of the best resources to listen to FREE Audiobooks. Audio books are not cheating! They help kids develop listening skills and can introduce them to more complex books when they may not have the skill to read at that level yet. 

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Free Audiobooks for Kids: Trying to prep dinner or working one on one with another child? A good audiobook for your kids can give you the space to get things done! Audiobooks are a fantastic way to entertain your kids with classic and modern stories, introduce them to historical periods and situations that are different from their own, and help them practice listening comprehension. 

Celebrate Book-Related Activities

You can bring the stories you’re reading to life with activities related to the books. Cook a meal from a culture you’re studying, create art inspired by the story, or take a field trip mentioned in the book. These hands-on experiences make the stories tangible and memorable which deepens their connection to the literature.

Model a Love for Reading

Let your children see you enjoying books. Share your excitement about the stories you’re reading and discuss them with your family. When kids see their parents valuing and enjoying reading, they’re more likely to develop a similar appreciation.

Create a Home Library

Build a collection of books that your family can easily access. It doesn’t have to be expensive—thrift stores, garage sales, and library sales are great places to find affordable books. A home library not only fosters curiosity but also creates a sense of pride in having a personal collection of stories.

Encourage Writing

Nurture your child’s creativity by encouraging them to write their own stories. Provide journals and encouragement for their imaginative efforts. Writing helps children find their own voice and deepens their appreciation for the stories they read. This could be a poem, a creative story, or a recount of a historical event.

Start/Join a Homeschool Book Club

Create or join a homeschool book club where your kids can read and discuss books with their friends. This makes reading a shared activity, allowing them to bond over their favorite stories and deepen their love for literature. Book clubs also teach kids how to express their thoughts and listen to others. You can also join a mom’s book club!

Embrace the Joy of Literature-Rich Homeschooling

A literature-based education can harness your children’s natural love for stories. It enhances their communication skills, and makes learning an engaging, connected experience. It can introduce your child to other cultures, making them a global citizen with empathy for others. It’s a common-sense approach that’s both memorable and effective, allowing you to learn alongside your children and enjoy the journey together. So grab a book, gather your family, and get started!

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044. Hidden Agenda in Homeschool Groups and Organizations

The Hidden Agenda Behind Homeschool groups and Organizations

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Hidden Agenda in Homeschool Groups and Organizations

Episode 044:

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Show Notes

As seasoned homeschoolers, we have noticed that the pandemic and sudden influx of homeschoolers over the last few years has unfortunately attracted some nefarious and predatory companies into the curriculum market.  But we also know that there are a lot of differences in types of homeschoolers, in general- we’re not a homogenous bunch by any stretch, and so it is important to be able to sift through the enormity of the information out there to find just the right fit and path for your family.  At the end of the day, we could all be homeschooling for completely different reasons, but we still don’t want to see anyone fall prey to a scam, or spend money on a program or organization that isn’t going to be a good fit or helpful to their family.

It goes without saying that transparency varies between organizations and online groups and companies, and finding conflicts of interest can be daunting. By honing your critical thinking skills when evaluating, and being mindful of biases, you can navigate the complex landscape of information and make more informed judgments. When looking at homeschool organizations, groups, and curriculum purveyors:

Investigate ownership

Examine the ownership of the organization. Determine if there are any potential conflicts of interest based on the political or corporate affiliations of the owners. Media consolidation or bias can influence the content and presentation of news.

Scrutinize funding sources

Investigate the funding sources for them. Look for any financial ties or affiliations that may influence the information presented. Consider whether the funding sources are vested in a particular outcome or narrative.  Is this a spin-off group that is owned or operated by a different, larger company with a different viewpoint? And don’t just look at who donates or sponsors them, who do they donate to or sponsor?  Do you want your money going to these other groups?

And likewise, what are their connections?

You want to examine any potential affiliations that individuals posting or the organization may have. Does a financial or professional relationship impact their objectivity or bias? Do they feature a review or advertisement from a public figure that has nothing to do with education?

Is it a real person with experience?

Sometimes in these homeschool groups, there are brand new profiles with only a couple of Facebook friends and/or a stock photo. You can easily search in a group if somebody posts repeatedly promoting a certain product. That’s a red flag. It’s also typically against the rules of most groups to post without identifying that you are affiliated or employed by the company that you are promoting.  

Evaluate disclosure statements

If a homeschool organization lacks transparency or has incomplete disclosures, that’s often a red flag. If I can’t even identify what the company’s worldview is, there’s a chance that they aren’t even aligned with your family values. And if they aren’t, you won’t want to purchase their product. 

Cross-check multiple sources

Verify information by seeking diverse sources and experiences. Relying on a single source or outlet increases the risk of biases or conflicts of interest. Use that search bar!  See what other users are saying.  Don’t trust the company or organization to vouch for themselves.

These are simple things you can do to determine whether a company or group is legitimate and worthy of your membership and money.

Do I need to join HSLDA? (6:54)

(Homeschool Legal Defense Association)

So, one of the biggest things you will see on posts and pages about getting started in homeschooling is the advice to immediately join HSLDA (or other state- focused homeschooling associations).

Back in the early 1980s, home education was widely illegal, and still typically fell under truancy laws and statutes—which govern compulsory education—in many states. In response, a batch of lawyers founded the HSLDA and over the decades have pursued the abolishment of homeschooling regulation and oversight. They’ve largely succeeded. Not only is homeschooling legal in every state, in some states parents are not required to notify anyone of their intent to homeschool.

The Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA) defines themselves as  a nonprofit organization in the United States that advocates for the rights of homeschooling families and provides legal support to homeschooling parents facing legal challenges. The organization’s stated mission is to preserve and protect the right of parents to educate their children at home. However, some critics and observers have speculated about potential hidden agendas or broader motivations behind the organization’s activities. 

They are primarily a lobbying group

Lobbying involves advocating for specific policies, legislation, or regulations to government officials in order to influence the decisions and actions of lawmakers. HSLDA advocates for laws and regulations that support the rights of homeschooling families and parents who choose to educate their children at home, but their lobbying efforts typically revolve around issues related to homeschooling regulations, parental rights, and educational freedom. This can include advocating against overly restrictive regulations or requirements that could impede parents’ ability to homeschool their children. Often though, there is an underlying agenda to promote conservative Christian values and religious beliefs through homeschooling. They may be more focused on shaping the curriculum and educational content according to these values.

HSLDA’s Homeschool Foundation is a member of the American Legislative Exchange Council (ALEC), an organization that drafts model conservative legislation for distribution to state legislatures. They are on ALEC’s education taskforce.

Kathryn Brightbill is the policy analyst at the Coalition for Responsible Home Education, an organization founded by homeschool alumni who seek sensible homeschooling reforms.  She says this about HSLDA:

“HSLDA has had an outsized role in shaping homeschool culture, including secular homeschool culture. Whatever noble motivations they may have had to help homeschoolers at the organization’s outset, their belief that children don’t have rights — only parents have rights — combined with their decision to take parent’s claims at face value instead of vetting the cases they choose, has made them an organization that enables child abuse and educational neglect.” 

Their focus on policy and legislation also has an impact on public education: There are concerns that a strong homeschooling movement, supported by organizations like HSLDA, might lead to decreased funding and support for public education, potentially weakening the overall quality and accessibility of education for all children. We are already seeing this happening with school choice and voucher legislation and the destabilizing of the public school system. 

They do not serve ALL families

Unless you are a Christian family there’s a very good chance that HSLDA will not represent you. They will take your money through membership, but they will not represent you. It’s so important for anybody giving money to them to know that your membership dues put them under NO obligation whatsoever to give you any legal aid. There is no guarantee, no policy in place that your membership money entitles you to any legal assistance whatsoever. They can choose to represent you, OR NOT, for any reason they see fit.

In the majority of states, the homeschooling regulations are relatively simple. If you get confused or run into minor trouble, most states have a statewide organization that can help you. It’s very rare for people to really run into trouble with the state over homeschooling, but if you do, it’s likely you’ll have to get your own lawyer anyway. Like here in Texas, CPS is not going to investigate a family JUST because of homeschooling.

They have a particular agenda and a particular view of homeschooling to advance. They have a conservative political agenda and sometimes insert themselves into issues that have absolutely NOTHING to do with homeschooling. In particular, they are anti-gay. They have never been subtle about their dislike of the LGBTQ people or their impassioned advocacy to ensure that LGBTQ communities are denied human rights and education. In 2004, HSLDA promoted a constitutional amendment that would ban gay and lesbian couples from not only the institution of marriage but also civil unions. (view the amendment). We are inclusive homeschoolers, and we embrace the LGBTQ community and it is a slap in the face after so much work has been done in these communities to create equal opportunities for all families. 

They use fear tactics to drive membership

I can’t tell you how many times I have seen posts from or about HSLDA that describe some crazy homeschooling story and how HSLDA had to step in and fix it and then everyone is like, this is why you should join.  Social workers and child protective services are consistently portrayed as “evil” and people who “abuse their power.” HSLDA has used resources like the Court Report and email alerts and Facebook posts to “fuel fear and distrust of government.” They act like you are facing certain doom if you don’t have their “protection,” but the reality is you don’t need them. So long as homeschoolers follow whatever regulations exist in their states (these vary from nothing at all to requiring annual portfolios), they’re almost always fine. 

Parental Rights Extremism: While HSLDA primarily focuses on homeschooling rights, some critics suggest that the organization’s advocacy for homeschooling rights might be part of a broader agenda to expand parental rights, potentially including the right to make medical decisions for children, even in cases where those decisions could have negative health outcomes.

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Minimal Government Oversight: HSLDA is known for advocating against government regulation and oversight of homeschooling. Critics contend that the organization’s push for minimal government involvement might be motivated by a desire to limit the ability of authorities to ensure that homeschooled children are receiving a well-rounded and comprehensive education. This can contribute to abuse.

Isolationism and Control: There are concerns that HSLDA’s support for homeschooling could potentially enable some families to isolate their children from diverse viewpoints and experiences. Critics worry that this isolation could lead to indoctrination and limit children’s exposure to a range of perspectives.

Almost all of the information they provide is also available for FREE

Seriously.  You do not have to pay for a membership when all of the information is available online. HSLDA has developed a brilliant strategy: fear mongering. A fear-based decision is not a logical one. The best way to overcome these fears they have worked so hard to put into our heads is to educate yourself on your state laws. Be proactive and be your family’s advocate. We have a handy guide on our website where we give a summary for each state and a link to each state’s education department. Join homeschool groups in your area, hone those critical thinking skills, and know that knowing your rights is your family’s best defense. 

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What does religious, secular, and inclusive really mean? (17:13)

When it comes to homeschooling, the terms “secular,” “inclusive,” and “religious” refer to different approaches and types of educational materials used in the curriculum, homeschool groups, and homeschool social gatherings. Here’s a breakdown of each category:

Secular Materials

Secular homeschooling materials are those that are not tied to any particular religious belief or doctrine. They focus on providing education from a non-religious perspective, emphasizing a neutral and objective approach to academic subjects. Secular materials aim to be inclusive of various beliefs and worldviews, focusing on facts, critical thinking, and a well-rounded education without a religious bias.

  • Ideal for families who want an education without a religious bias or who have a diverse range of beliefs.
  • Emphasizes critical thinking, scientific reasoning, and a well-rounded education.
  • Generally well-suited for families who want to expose their children to a variety of viewpoints.

Inclusive Materials

Inclusive homeschooling materials take into account the diversity of beliefs, cultures, and backgrounds among students and families. These materials strive to represent a wide range of perspectives, experiences, and identities. Inclusive materials acknowledge and respect differences, fostering an environment where students can learn about and appreciate various viewpoints and cultures.

  • Suited for families who value diversity, cultural awareness, and open-mindedness.
  • Fosters an environment of tolerance and respect for different perspectives.
  • Can help children develop empathy and an understanding of global issues.

Religious Materials

Religious homeschooling materials are rooted in a specific religious faith or belief system. They incorporate religious teachings, values, and perspectives into various subjects across the curriculum. These materials are often used by families who want to provide a religious education that aligns with their faith. Religious homeschooling materials can be tailored to different denominations and belief systems, allowing families to integrate their religious beliefs into their children’s education.

  • Chosen by families who wish to integrate their religious beliefs into their children’s education.
  • Provides a foundation for spiritual and moral development aligned with specific religious teachings.
  • Tailored to families who prioritize passing down religious traditions and values.

So to further complicate things though, there are some homeschool curricula or groups that are designated as “neutral.”  While by definition, “Neutral” homeschool materials should refer to educational resources that are free from bias, whether it’s religious, political, or cultural, we often find that instead Neutral materials aim to *avoid* promoting any particular ideology or perspective.  We see this most often in science curricula, where providers are hesitant to promote facts, for example, about evolution, so as to not dissuade people who believe in creation from buying their products, or vice versa.

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But we also see this in religious curriculum companies, who may market a neutral or secular program in order to secure more customers.  It’s important to note that just removing bible quotes or religious content does not make a program secular.  You cannot erase an overall worldview.

This can get really tricky for secular schoolers though, because over the years some secular groups have gotten really strict about these definitions.  You have to understand that when we both started homeschooling, there weren’t a ton of truly secular options out there.  We had to adapt a lot of things and there might still be things we are ok using because we know and like other parts of the program or there is nothing else like it out there. But younger homeschoolers have seen the advance of truly secular programs and may be unwilling to compromise.  And that’s great, we should demand and advocate for the things we want to invest in and get what we want.  But, sometimes those rules can be too strict or rigid and we’ve seen secular providers get deemed not secular, for one small thing. We think we should do our best to fully support secular providers, but still be open to using what works for your family. 

And of course, this disparity isn’t just between religious and non-religious materials.  You also have to be careful when purchasing religious materials as these are not all the same either. The terms “old earth” and “young earth” refer to differing viewpoints on the age of the Earth and the universe within the context of creationism. These viewpoints often come up in discussions related to science education, particularly in the homeschooling community. The differences between old earth and young earth perspectives are primarily centered around the interpretation of scientific evidence, geological processes, and religious beliefs.

Old Earth Perspective:

  • The old earth perspective holds that the Earth and the universe are billions of years old, as determined by scientific evidence such as radiometric dating, geological layers, and astronomical observations. This viewpoint generally aligns with mainstream scientific consensus and the theory of evolution. In an old earth perspective, the creation days described in religious texts may be interpreted as symbolic or metaphorical rather than literal 24-hour periods. In homeschooling materials that incorporate an old earth perspective, you might find references to geological time scales, discussions about fossils, and explanations of the various scientific methods used to estimate the age of the Earth and the universe. These materials typically aim to reconcile scientific understanding with religious beliefs by interpreting religious texts in a way that allows for an ancient Earth.

Young Earth Perspective:

  • The young earth perspective asserts that the Earth and the universe are relatively young, often interpreted as around 6,000 to 10,000 years old, based on a literal reading of certain religious texts. Advocates of this viewpoint reject the scientific consensus on the age of the Earth and often reject evolution in favor of creationism. Young earth proponents may present alternative explanations for geological features and radiometric dating methods, often rooted in a belief in a global flood event. Homeschooling materials that follow a young earth perspective might emphasize a literal interpretation of creation accounts, present counter arguments to mainstream scientific theories, and promote alternative explanations for natural phenomena. These materials typically align with religious organizations or ministries that advocate for young earth creationism.

Ultimately, when selecting homeschooling materials, it’s so important to align your choice with your family’s values, beliefs, and educational goals. It’s sometimes baffling to see people make big purchases without fully researching this simple idea of worldview. Or choose a free curriculum that doesn’t align with their family. Don’t do it, it’s not worth it! No matter what your worldview is, I would think you would want to know what they are purchasing. Consider what type of education you want to provide for your children, and choose materials that support those objectives. It’s also worth noting that some families blend different types of materials to create a well-rounded and personalized curriculum.

Now of course, there is a big difference between not quite grasping the importance of worldview in your choices and downright getting scammed.  So let’s talk about it.

Nefarious homeschool curriculum purveyors and how to avoid them. (25:54)

This is again something that really started to become a problem since Covid. Maybe, before doing our own podcast and so much research, we didn’t notice it as much, but there definitely was a surge because of a sudden awareness in an untapped market.  Especially following the pandemic, when you had a ton of people that were desperate and looking for answers quickly, it was prime time for companies or people to take advantage.

Like we mentioned earlier about using your critical thinking skills to determine the legitimacy of groups and organizations, we recommend taking the following steps before purchasing a curriculum or program:

Website and Online Presence

Check the company’s official website and online presence. Legitimate companies typically have professional websites with clear information about their products or services, contact details, and terms of use. Did their website just go up in the last couple years?  Can you find information about their company prior to that?  Is their name very similar to another popular curriculum that is actually legit, but so close in name that you may accidentally buy the wrong one.  That’s not an accident! 

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Does the company have a website that attracts certain vague key words?  One company we’ve been seeing in particular recently had a web address that read like “online homeschool curriculum” when it’s a company that only provides pdfs.  They recently changed the address when that came up (though you can still route to it through there).  This was and still is a very popular keyword/s that new homeschoolers would search.

Does the company advertise deceptively by putting fake profiles in homeschool groups or even setting up fake homeschool groups themselves in which they can block any negative commentary about their products, or advertise without regard to the rules?  One such company set up a homeschooling group in each state that they run.  They also got mad that they were banned from a popular middle and high school homeschooling group and set up their own with a very similar name.  Not surprisingly, we’ve both been banned from this company’s fake groups for calling them out! 

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Typically homeschool groups have rules about spam and advertising.  It is not considered appropriate on most groups to provide affiliate links or links to groups without indicating it as such or disclosing that it’s your company.  There is a very popular homeschool company that pays people for posts with links.  Several groups have made rules that you cannot mention that group with the clickable web address you have to  say “company name DOT com”, spelled out.  It made me completely wary about the company in general when I found out they market like that.

There is a local husband and wife with a homeschool business in which the husband will come on posts and talk about it vaguely, never mentioning his wife’s business.  They’ve been banned from a couple groups for deceptive marketing practices.

Contact Information

Ensure that the company provides valid contact information, including an email address, phone number, and physical address. Legitimate companies are going to be transparent about their location and how to reach them. Legit companies are also usually pretty open about who the experts writing their programs are, too.  They usually want you to see that their writers are actual people that have some kind of advanced education or relevant experience in the subject that they are writing about.  They probably have an actual photo of the real person, much like an author bio does on any other book.

Reviews and Testimonials

Look for reviews and testimonials from customers who have used the company’s products or services. Online reviews can provide insights into the company’s reputation. Make sure the reviews and awards won are from actual legitimate reviewers and resources.  We’ve mentioned Cathy Duffy before as a great source for curriculum reviews.  One such predatory company lists themselves as award winning, though the only link to their award is from a website that they also own, and all of the other reviewed items are companies with affiliate links that also benefit that particular provider.

Pay attention to the company’s overall professionalism, including the quality of their website, branding, and communications. Legitimate companies tend to invest in a professional image. A couple of these companies are so easy to pick out once you notice them because not only are they not professional, but they have the same style to everything they put out from supporting websites, posts, and even their fake profile pictures.

Business Registration and Customer Support

Check if the company is registered with relevant authorities in its jurisdiction. Legitimate companies often have official business registrations and licenses. Contact their customer support with any questions or concerns you might have. Prompt and helpful responses are indicative of a legitimate company.  

A very popular homeschool company last year made a big change in how you could use their product, resulting in tons of homeschoolers losing their students’ work and records.  When parents complained online, they were blamed for using the product incorrectly, their posts were deleted by the company, and then the owner came on and doubled down with some very ugly comments about homeschoolers. They lost so much business when this happened. We never looked at them as a resource in the first place considering the owner was in a cult and lacked professional education experience, but a lot of people were willing to overlook that for the bargain monthly fee.  You get what you pay for, folks!

Search for companies in homeschool groups and see the ones that do not provide as promised, and then do not refund when they said they would. Also, when you see a post or recommendation, click on that person who is recommending to see if they are also contributing to the community or are they just promoting this product?

Red Flags

Be cautious of companies that ask for personal or financial information upfront, make unrealistic promises, or pressure you to make quick decisions.  Lifetime memberships?  I would seriously advise against buying anything marketed as a lifetime membership. Kids grow and mature and the things and methods that you want to use to teach your children often shift as you progress in homeschooling. So often people are stuck with a lifetime membership that they can’t use because it doesn’t even work for their family anymore. 

What about a program that is for sale this week only?  Deeply discounted?  Sometimes these programs are actually always for sale, you just happened to pop on right then. It’s like going to a store with your 20% off coupon.  It’s not that you are actually getting 20% off, they just upcharge 20% and you paid the actual price.  But everyone likes to feel like they are getting a deal, right?

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We ultimately decided not to name names in this episode because these are businesses that make money and can probably afford lawyers whereas we are doing this as a passion project and exist to help others.  We’ve already seen how they block and delete comments online. You are totally welcome to message us before buying and verify that that is not the company we are talking about though.  *Wink wink* We’ve got your back!

How do I find out if a group is right for my family? (37:00)

So, what about in person groups or local homeschool co-ops, university model schools, pods?  A lot of states have very loose regulations about how many people a person can homeschool, whether you can homeschool people that aren’t your kids, how many students constitute a school and are then subject to health and other local business and insurance regulations.  Following the pandemic, a lot of options in alternative schooling and social groups popped up.  Determining whether a homeschool group is the right fit for your family involves careful consideration of several factors. 

Research Options

Start by researching the homeschool groups available in your area. You can use online homeschooling forums, social media groups, local community centers, and homeschool association websites to find potential groups. You may like to search with words like secular or inclusive.  If these are not included, you can assume the group is a religious one as a default.

Activities and Offerings

Look into the activities and offerings provided by the group. Some homeschool groups focus on field trips, social events, co-op classes, and extracurricular activities. Assess whether these align with your family’s interests and needs.

Goals and Philosophy

Consider your family’s homeschooling goals and educational philosophy. Different homeschool groups might have varying approaches to teaching, curriculum, and learning styles. Ensure that the group’s values align with your family’s educational goals. Remember that homeschoolers are all very different- some families may want to outsource more than others.  Some may want to outsource academics, or some may only want to do extracurriculars.  Make sure you are on the same page with the rest of the group. Make sure the world view is a match.  Don’t sign your child up for a science class that uses Christian content if you want a secular class. Learn more about Finding Your People

Membership Requirements

Check the membership requirements of the group. Some groups might require a certain level of commitment, participation, or financial contribution. Make sure you are comfortable with the group’s expectations. Some groups have strict rules that you may not have qualms about, things like dress code, for example, even for parents!  Many religious homeschool groups require a statement or faith, and some people are so desperate for a social outlet that they are willing to sign this, even if they don’t believe it.  Many times, these statements are discriminatory against certain people, often there are specific anti-LGBT statements.  These are not the groups for me.

Inclusivity and Diversity

Check whether the group is inclusive and open to families of different backgrounds, beliefs, and homeschooling styles. A diverse group can enrich your homeschooling experience. Also, carefully look through mission statements.  There is a local university model school here that has a very vague inclusion statement that leaves out significant groups of people.

Size and Composition

Consider the size of the homeschool group. A larger group might offer more diverse activities and opportunities, but it could also be overwhelming for some families. A smaller group might provide a more intimate setting but with fewer resources. And you don’t have to just be part of one.  We are part of several groups, and they all have a little something different to offer.

Location and Schedule

Evaluate the location of the group’s activities and events. Consider the distance you need to travel and whether the timing of events fits your family’s schedule. Remember that the myth of socialization!  It can be super easy to over schedule yourself with activities.  While many of us are willing to drive for awesome things in the beginning, that may not be a workable option long term.

Parent Involvement

Consider the level of parent involvement required in the group. Some groups might expect parents to contribute in various ways, while others may have a more relaxed approach. Many people post looking for drop-off co-ops.  Co-op means co-operative and implies that parent participation is a must.  And don’t be afraid of parent participation- it can be very rewarding.

Trial Participation or Attend a Meeting or Orientation

f possible, attend a few events or activities hosted by the group as a trial before committing. If the group offers orientation sessions or informational meetings, attend one to learn more about the group’s structure, goals, and expectations. This will give you a firsthand experience of the group’s dynamics and whether it suits your family. Some groups even require this of you before you attend.   Give it more than one chance, too, if the vibe isn’t quite there the first time.  You may meet your new bestie family on the third go! Reach out to current members of the homeschool group and ask about their experiences. Their insights can provide valuable information about the group’s strengths and potential drawbacks.

Trust Your Instincts

Trust your instincts and how you feel about the group after gathering information and interacting with its members. If something doesn’t feel right, it’s okay to explore other options. Remember that every family is unique, and the right homeschool group for one family might not be the best fit for another. Take your time, gather information, and prioritize what aligns best with your family’s values.

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043. Top 10 Books Every Homeschool Parent Should Read

Top 10 Books Every Homeschool Parent Should Read

043.

Top 10 Books Every Homeschool Parent Should Read

Episode 043:

Are you just starting your homeschooling journey? We’re here to help! Begin with our Get Started in Homeschooling page and Homeschooling FAQ to make the transition smoother. If you’re guiding a young child, explore our How to Homeschool Kindergarten. to make those first steps special. For middle schoolers, don’t miss our Middle School page packed with tips and advice. And if you’re heading into the high school years, our Essential Steps to Homeschool High School will guide you every step of the way!

Show Notes

Whether you are just starting or thinking about starting to homeschool or you have been homeschooling for many years already, there is so much value in reading books about homeschooling.  Even as old-hands, we have a couple favorite books that we often reread every year just to get re-inspired and motivated for the upcoming school year.  

Also, every week we do a “Favorite Book Friday” social media post (Follow us: BTDT Facebook and BTDT Instagram).

Oftentimes, these books have something to do with the current episode, but even if it’s a topic that we know a lot about, we like to stay current and keep a fresh list of books that we’ve read ourselves so that we can share them with you. We always feel a little weird about sharing a book we haven’t read so we really do try and read all of them, or at the very least, post books that lots of friends have recommended. The list we are going to present today is a combo of our personal favorites and books that seem to frequent everyone else’s favorite lists.

There’s so many reasons to read and continue reading homeschooling books.  For one, it can really help you to understand all the different homeschooling methods out there. Homeschooling approaches vary widely, from traditional to unschooling, Montessori, Charlotte Mason, and more. Books can provide insight into different methods, helping parents identify the one that aligns with their values, teaching style, and their child’s learning needs.  Our homeschool style has changed a lot from when we first started. Just like parenting, we have evolved and grown and we always try to keep an open mind to new ideas and methods as our children’s learning needs have changed. 

We talk in our Getting Started page and in our 7 Steps to Choosing Curriculum episodes how knowing your homeschool method/style is really going to help you narrow down curriculum choices and there are a great many books that offer recommendations for curriculum, teaching materials, and resources.

Homeschooling involves careful planning and organization to ensure a well-rounded education. There are a lot of books that can guide parents on creating schedules, setting goals, and tracking progress. And we especially like the ones that talk about maintaining home and day to day activities, too, because this really is an entire lifestyle. 

So many families have turned to homeschooling because their children have special needs or different abilities that were not being met in traditional school and  benefit from homeschooling one on one. Books can offer guidance on overcoming these challenges specifically in your homeschool.

Some parents worry about socialization and extracurricular activities when trying to make that decision about homeschooling.  A lot of homeschool books talk about the pros and cons of homeschooling/traditional schooling and can really ease your mind and offer ideas and insights into these different concerns. Reading books on homeschooling can really boost your confidence by providing a deeper understanding of the educational process and dispelling some of those myths and misconceptions. Some of these books are also going to provide insights into the long-term outcomes of homeschooling, including college admissions, career paths, and the development of well-rounded kiddos. 

Homeschooling is a huge decision that affects a family’s lifestyle and dynamics. Reading books can help parents make informed decisions by considering various factors and potential outcomes.  This is one of the things we really encourage parents to do while deschooling – which is a vital step to a successful homeschool after withdrawing your child from a school environment. Read, read, read! Learn more in Deschooling 101

Remember that while books are a valuable resource, they should be used alongside other sources of information, such as online forums, local homeschooling groups, and educational websites, and podcasts like this one! Each family’s homeschooling journey is unique, so finding the right resources and support is essential to create a successful experience for you and your kids.

Top 10 Favorite Books (10:31)

1. John Taylor Gatto “Dumbing Us Down”

“Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling” by John Taylor Gatto is such a thought-provoking critique of the modern education system. Drawing from his experience as a long-time teacher in public schools, he argues that compulsory schooling suppresses individuality, creativity, and critical thinking. 

He delves into the hidden agenda of education, revealing how it has become more about social control and conformity rather than fostering true learning and personal growth. Gatto challenges the traditional model of education, suggesting that it stifles students’ curiosity and innate desire to explore the world. Throughout the book, he advocates for a more personalized and student-driven approach to education, emphasizing the importance of self-directed learning and real-life experiences. 

While some may find his ideas radical, “Dumbing Us Down” is really an eye-opening read that can spark important conversations about the purpose and effectiveness of our modern education system. It will make you question the status quo and consider alternative approaches that empower students to become active, engaged, and critical thinkers. It’s an older book- published in 1992.

2. John Holt “How Children Learn” 

3. John Holt “Teach Your Own”

John Holt’s books, “How Children Learn”  and “Teach Your Own,” are timeless classics that have profoundly influenced the homeschooling movement. (And when we say timeless, these were originally written in 1967 and 1981). Holt talks about the natural ways that children absorb knowledge through curiosity, play, and self-discovery. He draws from his observations as an educator and advocates for a child-centered approach that respects the individual pace and interests of each learner. 

In “Teach Your Own,” Holt collaborates with co-author Patrick Farenga to provide practical guidance for parents considering homeschooling as an alternative to traditional schooling. They emphasize the importance of fostering a nurturing and supportive learning environment at home and encourage parents to trust their instincts in facilitating their child’s education. Together, these books present a powerful argument for respecting children as active participants in their own learning journeys and highlight the benefits of a more flexible, self-directed, and personalized education. Holt’s insights and wisdom continue to inspire parents and educators alike, offering valuable perspectives on how children truly learn and the potential rewards of embracing a more natural, child-led approach to education. 

4. Raymond and Dorothy Moore “Better Late Than Early”

“Better Late Than Early: A New Approach to Your Child’s Education” by Raymond and Dorothy Moore was actually required reading for parents joining our homeschool co-op in North Carolina with younger than school age kids. This book really challenges conventional wisdom by advocating for a later start to formal education. They argue that children’s natural development and readiness should dictate the timing of formal schooling, favoring a more relaxed and child-centered approach. They present compelling research supporting their stance, highlighting potential negative consequences of early formal education on children’s physical, emotional, and intellectual well-being. By emphasizing the significance of hands-on learning, exploration, and play during early childhood, the authors provide a refreshing perspective on education. 

While the book may not appeal to everyone, especially those who prioritize academic rigor from a young age, “Better Late Than Early” offers so many insights into the potential benefits of allowing children to mature naturally before introducing structured schooling. It encourages parents to be attuned to their child’s individual needs and readiness, promoting a more holistic and balanced educational experience. 

5. Julie Bogart “Brave Learner”

The Brave Learner

“Brave Learner: Finding Everyday Magic in Homeschool, Learning, and Life” by Julie Bogart is an empowering and heartfelt guide for homeschooling parents seeking to create an enriching and joyful learning experience for their children. With a warm and encouraging tone, Bogart shares her insights as a seasoned homeschooling mother and founder of the Brave Writer. The book explores the concept of “Brave Learning,” where the emphasis is placed on cultivating a love for learning, fostering creativity, and nurturing curiosity. She encourages parents to embrace a more relaxed and flexible approach, tailoring education to each child’s unique strengths and interests. Throughout the book, she offers practical tips and engaging activities that parents can easily incorporate into their homeschooling routine. 

Furthermore, “Brave Learner” delves into the importance of family connection and making learning an integral part of everyday life. This book is not just about homeschooling; it’s about cultivating a family culture that values growth, exploration, and the celebration of each individual’s learning journey. “Brave Learner” is a compelling read that will inspire and support homeschooling families in creating a thriving and authentic educational experience for their children.

6. Rebecca Rupp “Home Learning Year by Year”

“Home Learning Year by Year: How to Design a Homeschool Curriculum from Preschool Through High School” by Rebecca Rupp is an indispensable guide for homeschooling parents seeking to craft a comprehensive and flexible curriculum tailored to their child’s individual needs. Rupp’s book offers a well-organized and practical approach, covering various age groups from preschool through high school. The book provides valuable insights into age-appropriate learning activities, subject recommendations, and educational milestones for each grade level. 

She emphasizes the importance of nurturing a child’s curiosity and interests while ensuring a solid foundation in core subjects. The suggested resources, reading lists, and project ideas make it easy for parents to plan engaging and well-rounded lessons. Whether new to homeschooling or experienced, “Home Learning Year by Year” serves as an invaluable resource, empowering parents to confidently navigate their child’s education journey and foster a love for learning that extends beyond the traditional classroom setting.

7. Emily Cook “A Literary Education”

We can’t really talk about Emily’s book without starting out by talking about Charlotte Mason’s original book series. Her educational series is a wealth of timeless wisdom and insights into a holistic and child-centered approach to education. It consists of six volumes and this series lays out Mason’s educational philosophy and methodology in a comprehensive and accessible manner. Mason’s ideas revolve around respecting the child’s personhood, fostering a love for learning, and presenting a wide range of living ideas and living books to capture the child’s imagination. She emphasizes the importance of short lessons, outdoor exploration, and cultivating good habits. Through her writings, Mason advocates for a rich and diverse curriculum that includes literature, the arts, nature study, and practical life skills. Her approach places a high value on narration as a means of encouraging children to absorb and assimilate knowledge actively. The series beautifully intertwines philosophy and practical advice, making it a valuable resource not only for homeschooling parents but also for educators seeking to create a nourishing and meaningful learning experience for their students . These are really old- 1886!  But Charlotte Mason’s educational series has stood the test of time and continues to inspire and shape progressive educational practices that honor the unique potential of every child’s mind and spirit.

Now some people really struggle with the old books and there are a lot of adaptations of her ideas. As a homeschooling parent or educator seeking to cultivate a love for literature and a deeper understanding of classic works, “A Literary Education: Adapting Charlotte Mason for Modern Secular Homeschooling” by Emily Cook is a valuable and insightful resource. Drawing inspiration from the educational philosophy of Charlotte Mason, Cook presents a secular adaptation that resonates with a wide range of homeschooling families. The book offers practical guidance on how to incorporate living books, narration, and other Charlotte Mason-inspired methods into a modern homeschool curriculum. Cook skillfully navigates the complexities of literary analysis and presents practical strategies for fostering critical thinking and meaningful discussions around classic literature. 

The emphasis on cultivating a living relationship with books and allowing children to form their own connections to the stories they read is a refreshing and engaging approach. “A Literary Education” serves as an excellent companion for both novice and experienced homeschoolers and it offers a wealth of ideas and tools to create a rich, literary-focused learning environment. 

8. Susan Wise Bauer and Jessie Wise “The Well-Trained Mind”

“The Well-Trained Mind: A Guide to Classical Education at Home” is an essential resource for homeschooling parents seeking to implement a classical education approach. Written by Susan Wise Bauer and Jessie Wise, the book offers a well-structured and comprehensive guide, providing clear steps and practical advice on designing a rigorous and balanced curriculum at home. The authors emphasize the importance of a classical education’s three stages – the grammar, logic, and rhetoric stages and they explain how to tailor the learning process to suit the child’s developmental needs. “The Well-Trained Mind” not only introduces parents to the classical model but also offers a wide range of subject recommendations, teaching techniques, and educational resources. 

While the classical approach may not resonate with every homeschooling family, the book remains a valuable reference for those interested in a time-tested and intellectually stimulating educational philosophy. Its detailed guidance and thoughtful insights make it a valuable addition to any homeschooling parent’s library.  

9. Peter Gray “Free to Learn” 

“Free to Learn: Why Unleashing the Instinct to Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-Reliant, and Better Students for Life” by Peter Gray is a compelling and thought-provoking exploration of the innate drive for play and its profound impact on children’s learning and development. Gray, a prominent psychologist, challenges the traditional education system and argues that children learn best when given the freedom to explore, play, and pursue their interests autonomously. Drawing from extensive research and real-life examples, Gray makes a convincing case for the importance of unstructured, self-directed play in cultivating creativity, problem-solving skills, and emotional intelligence. 

He examines the detrimental effects of overly structured schooling, emphasizing the role of play in fostering resilient, self-reliant, and motivated kids. “Free to Learn” offers a fresh perspective on education and it urges parents and educators to embrace a more natural and child-centered approach that allows children to thrive and flourish as curious and engaged learners.

10. Amber O’Neal Johnston “A Place to Belong”

Amber O’Neal Johnston, a homeschooling mother of four, shows parents of all backgrounds how to create a home environment where children feel secure in their own personhood and culture, enabling them to better understand and appreciate people who are racially and culturally different. A Place to Belong gives parents the tools to empower children to embrace their unique identities while feeling beautifully tethered to their global community. This book is a guide for families of all backgrounds to celebrate cultural heritage and embrace inclusivity in the home and in our communities. Socially conscious parents today are looking for a way to authentically embrace the fullness of their diverse communities. 

A Place to Belong offers a path forward for families to honor their cultural heritage and champion diversity in the context of daily family life by:

    Fostering open dialogue around discrimination, race, gender, disability, and class

   Teaching “hard history” in an age-appropriate way 

   Curating a diverse selection of books and media choices in which children see themselves and people who are different

   Celebrating cultural heritage through art, music, and poetry

   Modeling activism and engaging in community service projects as a family

Additional favorites:

Obviously, it is hard to narrow down books to just one list of 10 because there are so many more great books out there.  As always, we would love to hear from you if you have additions to this list or comments and feedback about any of these books.

“Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids” by Kim John Payne and Lisa M. Ross

“The Call of the Wild and Free: Reclaiming Wonder in Your Child’s Education” by Ainsley Arment

A Charlotte Mason Companion: Personal Reflections on the Gentle Art of Learning” by Karen Andreola  (this is actually a favorite of mine- it is not secular, but it is easy to just skip over the bible chapter).

“The Montessori Method” by Maria Montessori

“The Unschooling Handbook: How to Use the Whole World as Your Child’s Classroom” by Mary Griffith

“The Well-Adjusted Child: The Social Benefits of Homeschooling” by Rachel Gathercole

“For the Children’s Sake: Foundations of Education for Home and School” by Susan Schaeffer Macaulay

“The Teenage Liberation Handbook: How to Quit School and Get a Real Life and Education” by Grace Llewellyn

“Project-Based Homeschooling: Mentoring Self-Directed Learners” by Lori McWilliam Pickert

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Free Audiobooks for Kids

Audiobooks
Audiobooks

Audiobooks are a fantastic way to entertain your kids with classic and modern stories, introduce them to historical periods and situations that are different from their own, and help them practice listening comprehension. If you’re trying to prep dinner or working one on one with another child, setting your child up with a good audiobook can give you the space to get things done. 

We’ve listed some websites below where you can find FREE audiobooks for your children (including plenty of children’s classics) and a few recommendations to get you started.

PBS Kids

If your little one loves picture books, they’ll be delighted by Read-Along with PBS Kids! This playlist features children’s books read by the author or a notable person, including former first lady Michelle Obama and US poet laureate Joy Harjo.

Spotify

Through Spotify, you can access tons of free audiobooks in the public domain, such as:

Beyond these beloved classics, Spotify also has a whole Spoken Word section dedicated to audiobooks, poems, and other non-musical resources. You will need to create a free Spotify account to access any of these items.

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Through our informative podcasts, blog posts, daily inspiration, and a wide range of free printable tools, we aim to empower and assist you on your homeschooling journey. We believe in equipping you with valuable resources to make your homeschooling experience successful and enjoyable.

Storynory

The Storynory podcast offers short weekly audiobooks based on folklore and fairy tales from around the world. Popular retold tales include stories by The Brothers Grimm, Hans Christian Andersen, and Aesop.

Use these links to listen to the podcast on one of these popular listening platforms:

Lit2Go 

Another robust collection of public domain literature, Lit2Go leans into education by rating all of its titles on the Flesch-Kincaid grade level scoring system. This makes it easy to filter and browse audiobooks by grade level, from kindergarten through 12th grade. You can play books by chapter with the on-page audio player and read along with the text, or download the audiobook, often through a link to iTunes U. 

Harper Kids

The Harper Kids YouTube channel features author read-alongs of popular picture books in their Storytime Read Aloud playlist. Older children who are ready for chapter books may enjoy The Graveyard Book, read by the author Neil Gaiman.

Free Audibooks on LibriVox

LibriVox has created thousands of free classic audiobooks read by volunteers. Like Spotify, all books available on LibriVox are open to the public domain, so you won’t find some of the more modern stories that are still under copyright.

While not all of these audiobooks are suitable for a younger child’s listening comprehension level, LibriVox has many books by authors who are taught in elementary and middle school, including:

OverDrive/Libby

Through OverDrive’s app Libby, you can access audiobooks available from your local library and listen to them online. Because every library purchases a different selection of books, the children’s books you can find will vary depending on where you live. Also, you’ll need to have a library card to access OverDrive and Libby.

Try this Library Finder to find the library nearest to you that uses OverDrive. If your local library does not use Overdrive, ask them if they offer a similar audiobook platform. Most libraries do, and they will be happy to get you set up!

Top 50 Books for New Readers
Top 50 Books for New Readers
Finding the right book is essential in helping to ignite your young readers and set them up for a life-long love of literature. On this booklist, we have picked a selection of short, illustrated books that were our family favorites and are perfect for children launching into independent reading.

Story Seeds

This podcast features short stories written by kids ages 6 to 12 in collaboration with bestselling children’s authors. A few fun episodes to start with include:

Plus, if your child has a story idea of their own, they can submit it to the Story Seeds podcast here!

Middle School Books
Favorite Books for Middle Schoolers
As parents and homeschoolers, we understand the importance of nurturing a lifelong passion for literature and finding the right books can make all the difference. This is especially important during those middle school years as your kids begin to read more hearty chapter books on their own. We’re giving you strategies to ignite a love for reading during this age and share an exciting list of books that helped our kids fall in love with literature.

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Summer Reading List

Stay motivated throughout the summer with this FREE Summer Reading Challenge List and Reading Log, complete with a Book Rating column!

Ensure that your kids fall in love with reading and maintain their reading skills by marking off each task on their summer reading list.

For those of you that take the summer off and don’t homeschool year-round, here’s a fantastic method to keep your kids actively engaged and allow their imagination to soar. Regular reading not only fosters a love for books but also helps children maintain and enhance the reading skills that you have diligently nurtured. By encouraging consistent reading habits, we can encourage their joy in reading and ensure that new readers, in particular, retain the valuable skills they have acquired through your dedicated efforts.

To get your kids excited about reading, we’ve put together a winning combination of suggestions that is sure to inspire them. They just may never put the books down! One of our favorites is Calvin and Hobbes:

See our TOP 50 Books for New Readers.

Reading

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Through our informative podcasts, blog posts, daily inspiration, and a wide range of free printable tools, we aim to empower you on your homeschooling journey.

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Stamped from the Beginning

Stamped from the Beginning- The Definitive History of Racist Ideas in America

Stamped from the Beginning: The Definitive History of Racist Ideas in America

by: Ibram X. Kendi

Kendi’s book is a powerful read for anyone who wants to gain a deeper understanding of the history of racist ideas in America and their continued impact on society today.  This book has helped to open my eyes to what has been happening in the U.S. since the days of slavery and teach that in my homeschool.

“Stamped from the Beginning: The Definitive History of Racist Ideas in America” by Ibram X. Kendi is a comprehensive and insightful examination of the history of racist ideas in America. It boldly explains certain sides of history that much of our society has missed and continues to ignore in our education system. The book explores the origins of these ideas and the ways in which they have evolved over time, from the colonial era to the present day. Kendi provides a thorough examination of key individuals and movements that have shaped the conversation around race and racism in America, including key figures in American history such as Thomas Jefferson, William Lloyd Garrison, W.E.B. Du Bois, and Angela Davis, and more.

In addition to being informative and thought-provoking, this book is also highly readable, making it accessible

One of the strengths of this book is Kendi’s ability to connect the past to the present, demonstrating how the racist ideas that have been prevalent in American history continue to impact society today. The book is well-researched and provides a wealth of historical detail, making it an excellent resource for homeschoolers looking to add the history of race and racism in America to their curriculum. It should be the anchor text for every US History class in every high school in America. 

A Place to Belong

A Place to Belong: Celebrating Diversity and Kinship in the Home and Beyond

by: Amber O’Neal Johnston

Amber O’Neal Johnston’s book will help you teach your children to navigate the beauty and challenges of multiculturalism. When I saw that Julie Bogart wrote the forward, I knew it would align with my family and celebrate the culture I want to create for my own children.

This book was first suggested by a close friend that makes activism a big part of her homeschool.
“A Place to Belong: Celebrating Diversity and Kinship in the Home and Beyond” is a family guide to culturally rich living and offers a place for all people to navigate the beauty and challenges of multiculturalism.

The author, Amber O’Neal Johnston, shares her experience as a homeschooling mom and provides insights into how families can engage in activism and community service. Amber provides a multitude of a reflective questions and actionable steps we can take toward building the home culture and community cultures that we genuinely want to be a part of and raise our children. She provides concrete steps and tips for fostering open dialogue, teaching “hard history” in an age-appropriate manner and celebrating cultural heritage in various ways.

This book is thought-provoking, challenging, helpful, and intellectual. Written in an everyday approach that asks the reader to consider their own biases and change their thinking around what it truly means to belong.

March: Book One

March: Book One

by: John Lewis

I bought this book out of admiration for John Lewis’ life and work and got much more out of it. The story of his childhood, family and determination to make a difference is inspiring, and the drawings are first-rate. I literally could not put it down until it was finished and it is a must in your homeschool.

After you read the book, be sure to check out this FREE Activity Guide

“March: Book One” is a graphic novel written by Congressman John Lewis and co-written by Andrew Aydin. The beautiful art was created by Nate Powell. It is the first volume in a trilogy of graphic novels chronicling Lewis’s involvement in the civil rights movement. The book was published in 2013 and won numerous awards, including the National Book Award for Young People’s Literature. 

The book begins with Lewis’s childhood in rural Alabama, growing up on a farm without electricity or running water. It then follows him as he becomes involved in the civil rights movement, starting with the Montgomery Bus Boycott and continuing through the Freedom Rides, the march on Washington, and the passage of the Civil Rights Act of 1964. 

One of the strengths of “March: Book One” is the way it personalizes the civil rights movement, showing how one individual’s actions can have a huge impact on history. Lewis’s narrative is engaging and inspiring, and Powell’s art is powerful and emotive. Overall, “March: Book One” is a thought-provoking and moving work.

After you finish the book, then you can work with your children to brainstorm ways they can be an “upstander” and not just a “bystander” in their community. Finish by creating “Upstander Posters” as found in this FREE Activity Guide

I highly recommend this book for your homeschool. The content is sensitive but an important part of our history and the powerful impact that John Lewis made to the civil rights movement. 

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