BTDT Homeschool

The Been There Done That Homeschool Podcast was created to give back to the secular homeschool community. We are Maria and Nicole and have 5 children between our two families. We have both homeschooled from the very beginning - 30+ years! This is not a conservative homeschool story. There will be wine, an occasional expletive and we may occasionally go off topic as most moms do. Be prepared to laugh and cry while you walk with us as we tell our stories, share tips and advice for what's worked for us and what hasn't. So sit back and enjoy!

003. How To Get Started

003.

How To Get Started in Homeschooling

What are the Advantages and Disadvantages of Homeschooling?
Can I homeschool in my state?
How to withdraw your child from public school?
What is Deschooling?

Tune in this week while we discuss these topics and more!

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Two Withdrawal Sample Letters

Are you just starting your homeschooling journey? We’re here to help! Begin with our Get Started in Homeschooling page and Homeschooling FAQ to make the transition smoother. If you’re guiding a young child, explore our How to Homeschool Kindergarten. to make those first steps special. For middle schoolers, don’t miss our Middle School page packed with tips and advice. And if you’re heading into the high school years, our Essential Steps to Homeschool High School will guide you every step of the way!

Show Notes:

Great News! We have choices when it comes to our children’s education!

Homeschooling may seem daunting when you first begin but we are here to help you navigate through this entire process! In this episode, Maria and Nicole discuss advantages and disadvantages of homeschooling, homeschooling in your state, withdrawing your child from public school and deschooling.

Top 10 Books Every Homeschooler Should Read is a great place to begin to set yourself up for success and create life-long learners:

with FREE Companion Workbook

These books have inspired us and several stay on our bookshelves and we often re-read and reference them at the start of our new school year. Many new homeschoolers struggle with confidence and wonder if they really can homeschool their children. These books will help begin to lay the foundation of Finding the Confidence to set your children up for success!

Advantages and Disadvantages of Homeschooling (1:36)

Homeschooling Pros:

  • Flexibility/time
  • Freedom
  • Personalized education
  • Strong family relationships
  • Fostering a love of learning
  • Religious or ethical instruction

Homeschooling Cons:

  • Workload
  • Time 
  • Finding balance
  • Excessive interaction
  • Seeking out social opportunities
  • Other people’s opinions 
  • Cost 

Worried about Socialization?

This MYTH is debunked time and time again! Homeschoolers have MORE Opportunities to socialize since they are not limited to a classroom setting all day. There’s so much time wasted in public school and lessons takes a fraction of the time at a home leaving more time for personal interests and building friendships. Learn More About Socialization and check out the Complete List of 100 Ways to Socialize Your Homeschooler.

State Laws and Requirements (26:23)

Homeschooling is legal in all 50 states, however all states have differing requirements as to what you must teach, how to withdraw from school, what a compulsory school age is (and/or whether kindergarten is required), and what, if any, type of reporting requirements there are.

Homeschool Laws by State
Look up your State’s Homeschooling Laws

Homeschool in Texas

In 1994 the Texas Supreme Court unanimously upheld lower court decisions that home schools, by law, are considered private schools. Private schools are exempt from the compulsory attendance requirements placed upon public school attendees. Private schools in Texas are not regulated or accredited by the state.

  • The instruction must be bona fide (i.e., not a sham).
  • The curriculum must be in visual form (e.g., books, workbooks, video monitor).
  • The curriculum must include the five basic subjects of reading, spelling, grammar, mathematics, and good citizenship.

There are no reporting agencies and no testing requirements for homeschoolers. The state of Texas does not regulate homeschoolers once they have been removed from the public school system.

IF YOUR CHILD HAS NEVER ATTENDED SCHOOL
  • If your child has never attended public school, you can simply keep them home and homeschool.
  • You do not have to notify the school or sign the intent to homeschool if they have never been enrolled.
How to withdraw your child from public school (Texas)
  • BY MAIL (recommended):  It is suggested that you send this certified mail, return receipt requested, so you have proof of their receipt of the letter. Send a copy to the registrar in case the principal forgets to notify them.
  • IN PERSON: Go to the school and tell the administrator that you will be withdrawing your child to homeschool him/her.  You can physically deliver your letter (recommended) or sign the provided form (“Intent to Homeschool”, “Homeschool Assurance Statement”, or whatever the school titles it) This form may ask you what type of curriculum you intend to use. You DO NOT have to answer this question. You can leave it blank if you like. Or, if you want to put something there you can simply say you will be using an eclectic approach, utilizing many types of resources.
  • Pay any library fines, return books that belong to the school, settle up cafeteria charges, etc.
  • Should you have any issues from the school, you should contact an attorney, or you can seek legal guidance from a homeschool group that provides legal representation.
  • Once you have withdrawn you child, take this time to DESCHOOL and enjoy them before beginning any formal education.

What is Deschooling? (31:16)

Deschooling is defined as the adjustment period a child goes through when leaving school and beginning homeschooling.  To fully benefit, a child has to let go of the private/public school culture as the norm.  This is a crucial part of beginning homeschooling after a period of time spent in a classroom.

Deschooling
Learn more: Deschooling 101 and download the Free Deschooling Activity Page to keep learning during this time.

This Week’s Freebies:

Withdraw Your Child from Public School
SAMPLE LETTER #1
Withdraw Your Child from Public School
SAMPLE LETTER #2

002. Host Introductions

BTDT Homeschool Hosts

002.

Host Introductions

Who are we?
What is our homeschool story?
How did we start homeschooling?

Tune in this week while we introduce ourselves!

BTDT Homeschool Host Introduction

We are Nicole & Maria. We are thrilled to have you here!

We live in North Texas and have been great friends for over 10 years. We have 5 children between our two families and have both homeschooled from the very beginning. We collectively have over 30 years of secular homeschool experience and we have so much to share with you! There may be wine and we may go off topic from time to time so sit back and join us as we share honest tips and advice for what’s worked for us and what hasn’t to help you on your journey.

We couldn’t have done it without all our homeschool friends who guided us over the years on our journey. The Been There Done That Homeschool Podcast was created as a way for us to pay it forward and give back to the secular homeschool community. Enjoy!

So many parents have helped us along the way and now it’s our turn to give back to the homeschool community. In this episode, we will introduce ourselves and tell our stories of what led us to homeschooling our children.  

We have 30+ years of collective experience educating 5 children between our 2 families and are looking forward to sharing some of the things we have learned along the way!

Click here for more info About Us
BTDT Homeschool Hosts

Every family is different, and you need to make the educational choices that best align with yours.  
Homeschooling can be a great option for families who want to take a more active role in their children’s education. If you would like to get started in homeschooling, check out our step-by-step guide to get you started or go to our Getting Started Page

001. Trailer – Intro & what’s this podcast about?

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Been There Done That Homeschool Podcast

Have you ever thought about homeschooling?
What would homeschooling be like?
What does a homeschooling day look like?

Been There Done That Homeschool Podcast is an all-inclusive space for your everyday parent looking for education options. 

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Are you considering homeschooling?
It’s a wonderful choice for families seeking a more active role in their children’s education. While it is a significant decision, it doesn’t have to be overwhelming.

With our extensive experience of over 30 years in the secular homeschool community, Maria and Nicole are here to be your trusted guides on this new adventure. Whether you’re just starting to explore homeschooling, have recently begun, or wish to enhance your homeschooling knowledge, we are dedicated to supporting you every step of the way. We understand that you have important questions, and our main objective is to provide you with the answers you need.

BTDT Homeschool was created with a heartfelt mission: to empower and give back to the secular homeschool community.

Through our informative:

We aim to empower and assist you on your homeschooling journey. We believe in equipping you with valuable resources to make your homeschooling experience successful and enjoyable.

Let’s join forces on this exciting educational voyage together!

Not sure where to start? We guide you all the way in our
GETTING STARTED PAGE:

How to get started in Homeschooling
We create
FREE Resources every week!

You have choices when it comes to your child’s education.
Every family is different, and you need to make the educational choices that best align with yours.  
Homeschooling can be a great option for families who want to take a more active role in their children’s education. It is a big decision, but it doesn’t have to be complicated. We are here for you!

Homeschool FAQ Guide

Have a High Schooler? Check out our HIGH SCHOOL SERIES
Have a brand-new Kindergartener? Check out our Kindergarten Page
Did you withdraw your child from school? Check out our Deschooling Page

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