074. Homeschooling 101: The First 10 Steps

Thinking about homeschooling your kids but not sure where to start? Or maybe you’ve already decided, but you’re feeling a bit overwhelmed? You’re not alone! We’ve walked this path, and we’re here to help you every step of the way.

In this episode, we’re sharing a step-by-step guide to help you confidently launch your homeschooling journey. It’s packed with tips, insights, and real-life advice to make homeschooling not only doable, but enjoyable for your whole family. Don’t forget to download your FREE Quick Start Homeschool Guide!

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Are you just starting your homeschooling journey? We’re here to help! Begin with our Get Started in Homeschooling page and Homeschooling FAQ to make the transition smoother. If you’re guiding a young child, explore our How to Homeschool Kindergarten. to make those first steps special. For middle schoolers, don’t miss our Middle School page packed with tips and advice. And if you’re heading into the high school years, our Essential Steps to Homeschool High School will guide you every step of the way!

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Have you been considering homeschooling your kids?  Maybe you already made the decision and you’re ready to get started but maybe still feeling a bit uncertain or overwhelmed by the idea? You are definitely not alone. We know that more and more families are finding themselves at this crossroads, especially now, with growing concerns about the dismantling of the Department of Education and the looming threat that school vouchers pose to our public school system.

We’ve been where you are and have successfully homeschooled five children between our two families. Our goal is to empower other families by giving back to the homeschool community that has helped us over the years. And today we are going to help you get started in homeschooling with practical steps and plenty of resources.

Click here to discover why Maria and Nicole chose homeschooling. Hear their journey, meet their families, and learn how homeschooling was the right chose for their families:

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And just a reminder: through our podcast episodes, blog, social media (Facebook and Instagram), and tons of free printable tools we’ve created, our mission is simple: we want to equip you with everything you need to make homeschooling not only doable, but enjoyable for your entire family. For this episode, we’ve created two powerful resources to help you get started: our free Get Started in Homeschooling Quick Reference Sheet, and our brand-new Homeschooling for Beginners eBook—a step-by-step guide designed to keep you encouraged and help you build the homeschool experience your family deserves.

Homeschooling is a big decision, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. You have options when it comes to your child’s education, and homeschooling is one of the most flexible, empowering ones out there. And if you haven’t already, be sure to check out our episode, 10 Things I Wish I Knew BEFORE Homeschooling. It’s packed with insights from our own journey that might just help you feel a little more at ease.

And a lot of people want to know about high school and college even if they are just starting out. Homeschooling through high school is not only doable, your teenagers can thrive. In fact, creating a personalized high school experience for each of our kids has been one of the coolest and rewarding parts of this journey. It’s not just about preparing them for college or the workforce—it’s about helping them discover who they are and what they love.

In our free High School Series, we help you map out a solid foundation that gives them the skills and confidence to succeed — in high school and beyond., whether they’re heading to a university, starting a career, or starting a business.

So many homeschoolers are entrepreneurs. I own my own business and we even created a teen entrepreneur episode in the high school series with a free business start up packet you can download for them. Homeschooling takes a fraction of the time as traditional school, and it leaves your kids so much time and opportunity to pursue their passions and learn who they are. 

10 steps to get started:

Step 1: Know Your State Laws

Homeschooling is legal in all 50 states but each state has its own rules about how, what, and when to teach. It’s important to stay in compliance with your state’s regulations. Look Up Your State Law.

When learning your state law, just be sure you understand your state’s specific requirements. And remember: it’s okay to meet your child where they are. If they’ve struggled with certain concepts, go back and revisit them. Homeschooling gives you that flexibility.

Step 2: Withdraw from Your Current School

If your child is already enrolled in public or private school, you’ll need to formally withdraw them. This usually involves a withdrawal letter sent to the school administration. Sample Withdrawal Letter 1 and Sample Withdrawal Letter 2

Step 3: De-School

This one is big. After leaving a traditional school setting, be sure to give yourselves this time to decompress. This adjustment period is called Deschooling and it’s essential for a smooth transition. Use this time to reconnect with them and reset. Don’t skip it! We go into specific details about how to do this and provide you with guidance in our deschooling episode. So if you’re at this stage, be sure to check it out and download your free deschooling resources to make the time you spend deschooling successful.

Step 4: Don’t Rush into Curriculum

This is one of the most common missteps. Don’t feel like you need to buy a full curriculum right away. First, take time to figure out your Homeschool Philosophy. This means learning about how your child learns best, and how you enjoy teaching. Homeschooling doesn’t have to look like school at home.

Step 5: Start Learning (as the Parent!)

This is a learning journey for you, too. We’ve got a great list of the Top 10 Books Every Homeschooler Should Read. They’re full of insight and guidance. You’ll explore different homeschool styles like Charlotte Mason, Classical, Unschooling, Montessori, and others. This is going to help you to define what kind of Homeschool you’re going to create and discover how your kids learn best. You’ll start to see what resonates with your family.

Step 6: Connect with Your Community

Find your people. Whether it’s a local homeschool co-op, field trip group, or an online support circle, connecting with other homeschoolers is so important. And let’s just say it: the myth about homeschoolers not being socialized? Not true. In fact, we were often too social, and sometimes had to scale back just to get things done at home! Check out our Episode 047: Socialization Myths in Homeschooling for more on that.

Step 7: Gather Your Resources

Now’s the time to start looking into curriculum, supplies, field trip ideas, online classes, and tools that fit your family. Whether your child has learning differences or just wasn’t thriving in their school environment, or maybe you have a brand new preschooler and you’re just getting started. You totally can do this successfully!  Take a look at our Top 25 Homeschool Essentials page. We’ve even shared a peek inside our homeschool rooms over the years!

To help you stay organized, we created the BTDT Homeschool Lesson Planner and Ultimate Organizer homeschool planning book to keep you on track. I created a video walk-through so you can see exactly how it’s laid out to ensure it works for you and your family. I like everything to stay organized in my book, but you don’t have to buy that, we also have free planner templates you can download on the 25 essentials page. Using tools like these will help you lay out your weeks and help you stay organized.

Step 8: Create a Schedule and Rhythm

Every family’s schedule looks different. Build a routine that fits your lifestyle and priorities. Having a consistent rhythm helps bring peace and structure to your days. And remember, it’s okay to change things up as needed. Episode 009: Schedules, Routines, & Rhythms

Step 9: Homeschooling is a Family Affair

This impacts your whole household. Consider everyone’s needs. Especially if you have multiple ages at home. You’ll also want to find balance for yourself so you don’t burn out. We talk more about this in our Episode 046: 12 Ways to Balance Your Home and Homeschool. As a single mom, it is definitely one of my biggest challenges which is why I really wanted to do that episode. Getting your kids involved and helping has been a big part of my sanity, but also their growth. You can download our free chore charts and free meal planners to help keep your home running smoothly.

Step 10: Grow and Learn Together

Homeschooling is a lifestyle, not just a schooling method. You’ll all be learning, growing, and evolving as you go. Keep an open mind. Pay attention to what works and what doesn’t. Be patient, give yourself grace, and enjoy the freedom that comes with adjusting your approach when needed. There’s no one right way to homeschool and that’s one of the best parts! Episode 018. What is a Homeschool Lifestyle?

Homeschooling can be a wonderful journey for your entire family. Embrace it. While the future of education might feel uncertain right now, you are NOT powerless. You have the love, the commitment, and the support to create something amazing for each one of your children. We’re here cheering you on every step of the way!

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073. Breaking Through the Reading Plateau

Strategies for Fluency and Comprehension

Your child can read – Congratulations! But what comes next?
If your child is stuck in the slow, robotic stage of reading and you’re not sure how to move them toward true fluency and comprehension, you’re in the right place. In this episode, we’re talking about that all-too-common reading plateau that many homeschool families face. Tune in as we share practical, encouraging strategies to help your child gain confidence, read with expression, and actually enjoy the process!

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Are you just starting your homeschooling journey? We’re here to help! Begin with our Get Started in Homeschooling page and Homeschooling FAQ to make the transition smoother. If you’re guiding a young child, explore our How to Homeschool Kindergarten. to make those first steps special. For middle schoolers, don’t miss our Middle School page packed with tips and advice. And if you’re heading into the high school years, our Essential Steps to Homeschool High School will guide you every step of the way!

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Congratulations! Your child has finally cracked the code and can read—that’s such a huge accomplishment! But what’s the next step? Today, we’re talking about what to do when your child seems stuck in that mechanical, monotone phase of reading. If you’re wondering how to help them read with more expression and confidence, you’re not alone. Many homeschoolers face this challenge, and in today’s episode, we’re sharing simple, effective ways to help turn reading into full fluency.

Maybe your child can decode words but hasn’t quite made the leap to fluent, expressive reading, and you’re wondering how to help them embrace the joy of books. If that sounds like you, you’re in the right place!

If you have a child who hasn’t quite reached this stage and is still learning to read, be sure to check out our earlier episode on teaching reading. It’s full of helpful strategies to support your child as they build a strong foundation in phonics and early literacy skills. Today’s episode builds on that groundwork, so if you’re still in those beginning stages, it’s worth going back and giving that one a listen first. 

What is the Reading Plateau?

So, let’s start by defining what we’re talking about today: the reading plateau. It’s that in-between stage where your child technically knows how to read but hasn’t yet transitioned to fluent reading. You might notice they’re reading word by word, in a robotic tone, without much comprehension or enjoyment. This plateau is a totally normal part of learning to read. It happens because reading isn’t just one skill—it’s made up of many layers, like decoding, fluency, comprehension, and critical thinking. It takes time, patience, and a bit of intentional practice to move from simply sounding out words to really enjoying and understanding what’s on the page.

The good news? With the right strategies, you can help your child break through this stage and become a confident, thriving reader. Let’s dive into how to do that!

Build Fluency Through Repetition and Modeling

Fluency is the key to unlocking the next stage of reading. A fluent reader can read smoothly and with expression, making the text come alive. So to begin we’re going to list out three effective ways to build fluency:

1. Repeated Reading:
   Revisit favorite books and stories. This repetition helps them build confidence and focus on reading smoothly instead of just decoding. Don’t underestimate the power of familiar books—they make reading feel easier and more enjoyable.
2. Read Aloud Together:
   Take turns reading aloud with your child. When you read, model expressive, fluent reading. When it’s your child’s turn, encourage them to mimic your tone and pacing. This shared experience also strengthens your bond.
3. Use Audiobooks:
   Pair an audiobook with a physical book. Your child can follow along while listening to a skilled narrator. This not only builds fluency but also shows how stories can come to life with proper pacing and expression.

Strengthen Comprehension Skills

Once fluency begins to improve, it’s time to focus on comprehension. Here are three steps to help your child understand and connect with what they’re reading:

1. Ask Questions:
   While reading, pause to ask questions like, ‘What do you think will happen next?’ or ‘Why do you think the character made that choice?’ Open-ended questions help your child think critically about the story.
2. Summarize and Retell:
   At the end of a chapter or passage, ask your child to summarize it in their own words. This helps them process the story and strengthens their memory and understanding.
3. Make Connections:
   Encourage your child to connect the story to their own life, other books, or the world around them. For example, ‘Does this remind you of anything we’ve done?’ or ‘Have you read another book with a similar character?’ This step brings the story to life in a personal way.

Make Reading Fun and Joyful

Reading should feel like a treat, not a chore. If your child is stuck in the mechanics of reading, it’s crucial to make it fun again. Here’s how:

Introducing Rich Literature

Introducing rich literature to children offers countless benefits, from exposing them to beautiful language to fostering critical thinking and imagination. Here’s how to make it meaningful and manageable:

1. Start with Short Classics and Picture Books
Begin with accessible yet captivating stories like Charlotte’s Web or The Tale of Despereaux. Beautifully illustrated picture books, such as Where the Wild Things Are or Blueberries for Sal, are also excellent choices. These books introduce timeless themes and rich language in a way that feels approachable and engaging.

2. Discuss Themes and Ideas
After reading, try asking open-ended questions to help your child explore the story in a fun and thoughtful way. Questions like, “What do you think the character learned?” or “Would you have done the same thing? Why or why not?” can spark great conversations. These kinds of questions help kids connect with the story and start thinking more deeply about what they’ve read.

3. Encourage Creative Responses
Bring the story to life with creative activities:

• Illustrate a favorite scene to strengthen comprehension.
• Write a new ending to spark imagination.
• Act out key moments to make the story more interactive.

Creative projects like these deepen engagement and make reading more of an immersive experience.

4. Read Aloud Above Their Level
Reading books aloud that are above your child’s independent reading level—like Anne of Green Gables or The Chronicles of Narnia—is a great way to expose them to more advanced vocabulary and rich storytelling. It builds their comprehension, sparks curiosity, and invites them into deeper, more meaningful stories. When you share great literature together, you’re not just reading—you’re planting the seeds for a lifelong love of books.

Tips for Reluctant Readers

Not every child falls in love with reading right away, and that’s okay. The key is to spark their interest and make reading feel less like a chore and more like an adventure. If you have a reluctant reader, here are some creative tips to help them engage with books in a way that feels fun and rewarding:

1. Use High-Interest Materials
If your child loves dinosaurs, grab a book about T-Rexes. If they’re into jokes, pick up a kid-friendly joke book. And yes—comic books, sports magazines, or even books about video games absolutely count as reading. My son was obsessed with Calvin and Hobbes, and those hilarious comic strips were a total turning point for him. They made reading feel fun and approachable, not overwhelming. Sometimes all it takes is finding that one thing that clicks.

The goal is to meet your child where their interests are. When they see books as a way to explore what they already love, they’re more likely to pick one up.

2. Make Reading Playful
Sometimes reading can start to feel like a chore, so adding a little playfulness can make a big difference. Try turning it into a game:

• Scavenger Hunts: write clues your child has to read in order to find hidden treasures around the house. It’s simple, exciting, and gives them a reason to read with purpose.
• Reading Games: Turn reading into a challenge, like timing how many sentences they can read fluently in one minute, then letting them ‘beat their score.’ Or you can play a game like our our favorite -Apples to Apples, where your child needs to read, but it’s a game and fun and takes the pressure off. 

• Story Challenges: Try asking your child to guess what might happen next in the story—or better yet, encourage them to create their own ending! One game my kids absolutely loved was Storymatic. It gives fun prompts that help spark their imagination and get those creative juices flowing. When reading turns into a game, it stops feeling like a chore and starts feeling like something they want to do.

3. Go Beyond Books
and just like those games, not all reading has to come from traditional books. Look for opportunities in the world around you:

• Read menus at restaurants together.
• Explore a favorite recipe and let your child read the steps.
• Look for signs or instructions while running errands.

These everyday moments can help reluctant readers see that reading is practical, fun, and all around them.

4. Let Them ‘Read’ to Someone Else
Reading aloud doesn’t have to be just with parents—pets, stuffed animals, or even younger siblings can make the perfect audience! Some libraries even offer programs where kids can cuddle up and read to a therapy dog, which is such a sweet, low-pressure way to practice. Having a ‘listener’ helps take the focus off perfection and builds both confidence and fluency. And if your child loves to be creative, turn reading time into a mini performance! Encourage them to use funny voices, add gestures, or act out the story—it makes reading feel like play.

5. Rotate Their Book Selection
If your child feels bored with their current books, it might be time for a refresh. Rotating books or heading to the library to explore new ones. This can reignite their curiosity. Let them take the lead in choosing what looks interesting. Sometimes a book’s cover art or an intriguing title is enough to capture their attention.

6. Focus on Humor
Laughter can be a powerful motivator for reluctant readers. Funny books like Geronimo Stilton, Diary of a Wimpy Kid, Captain Underpants, joke books, or silly poetry by authors like Shel Silverstein can really grab their attention. When kids discover that reading can actually make them laugh out loud, it shifts their perspective—and suddenly, picking up a book feels a lot more fun.

7. Encourage Ownership Over Books
Sometimes kids connect more with books when they feel a sense of ownership. Help your child create their own mini-library by organizing their favorite books in a special spot. Let them decorate a bookshelf or write their name inside the front cover. This simple step makes books feel more personal and gives them a sense of pride in their growing collection.

Remember, every child’s journey to becoming a confident, expressive reader looks a little different. It’s not about pushing—it’s about sparking curiosity and creating joyful, positive experiences with books. Be patient and trust the process. With a little support and the right approach, even the most reluctant reader can discover that books are full of adventure, imagination, and endless possibilities.

Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Remember that reading is a journey, not a race. Every child progresses at their own pace, and it’s our job as homeschool parents to guide them with patience and encouragement. Breaking through the reading plateau can feel daunting, but with some of these strategies, you can help your child move from mechanical reading to a lifelong love of literature!

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